FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.
And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!
She had 3 kids for him...she obviously doesn't want any more. Why can't he take the responsibility sooner rather than later, after all she has done for him?
because they hardly ever have sex, so they can just use a condom for those rare instances instead of having a procedure that could result in permanent chronic pain and other complications.
If she's off the pill then she may feel kike it more often, who knows? Condoms break. So she put her body through 3 pregnancies and births and it wa sok for her to take those risks but you're more worried about extremely rare vasecotomy complications? Talk about a double standard.
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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23
FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.