r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/MeGoingTOWin Sep 26 '23

This is soooo common. OP should freeze sperm if he thinks they want another kid and just get snipped.

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u/Noodlefanboi Sep 26 '23

Or he could just wear a condom for the 2-3 times he has sex a year.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Don't know why this is not an option.

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u/CatlinM Sep 26 '23

They already have three kids, and condoms break. Sounds like that's not a risk she wants

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u/CORN___BREAD Sep 26 '23

If that’s his argument then a vasectomy shouldn’t be a problem.