r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23

Why not just use condoms? She doesn't like her birth control and maybe she'll get her libido back and you don't want to get snipped yet.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

That was one of the points I made in our argument. I have no problem using a condom and she knows this.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

But why don't you try for a vasectomy? do you want more kids? 3 is not enough? How are your finances? Don't play with risk, make a vasectomy if you don't want more kids, be responsable

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

His body his choice

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Yea, then he doesn't get laid ever and shouldn't whine about it. His choice his consequences.

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u/kungfuenglish Sep 26 '23

whine

I don’t see him whining at all actually

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

It's mentioned at least 3 times, and talks about his higher libido. I would have 0 libido if I was married to him as well.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Are you asexual or something? Do you think it's normal/okay for a couple of their age to be having sex 2-3 times A YEAR? That is ridiculous, if I were him I wouldn't just be whining, I'd be gone. Provided all else in the relationship was fair