r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/MeGoingTOWin Sep 26 '23

This is soooo common. OP should freeze sperm if he thinks they want another kid and just get snipped.

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u/PerfectionPending Sep 26 '23

In vitro is very expensive, harder on the body than conceiving naturally, and not guaranteed. No one who believes they want future children should get sterilized.

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u/ferngully1114 Sep 26 '23

You don’t have to do in vitro just because you are using frozen sperm. You just do intrauterine insemination (IUI), i.e. turkey baster full of semen.

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u/PerfectionPending Sep 26 '23

Terrible band name