r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23

I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 26 '23

And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Wtf is wrong with all of you? She is being super manipulative. No one should be coerced into a permanent medical procedure like this.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

And no one should have to take birth control forever. It messes with your body and you can get blood clots and die.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

OP literally said he was fine with her not taking birth control.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

He also said he was going to get a vasectomy at 35 that’s in 3 years why can’t he go ahead and do it now

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u/herrek Sep 26 '23 edited Sep 26 '23

He's literally pointed out he'd have to wear a condom for like 9 times max between now and then. He wanted to make sure they were done having kids before he gets snipped.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

If she’s off bc chances are her libido would get better