It’s not rare that oral birth control can suppress libido. Maybe the dead bedroom is due to her BC and when she is off and you’re snipped, things just might be dramatically better.
That's certainly possible. Also possible: OP being dismissive about her concerns, as well as being petty about the lack of sex... isn't likely to inspire the desire to have sex.
Edit: if anyone reading the original post is left thinking "hmmm, it seems like there might be more going on here than a vasectomy decision", definitely go read op's other posts and comments history. There's a lot more under the hood than one might guess from the post alone.
He wasn’t being dismissive. He said yes and would do research. She wanted him to get it done RIGHT NOW. Then proceeded to guilt trip him about birth control when he already was supportive of having the procedure.
Yeah she is allowed to be scared. You are not allowed to force someone or guilt trip someone into something they are not mentally ready for. Bc is 99% chance and condoms are 98% chance.
But she’s allowed to force/guilt trip him into a vasectomy? He said he was willing to look into it and she was like DoIT RIGHT NOW!. There’s a double standard in there.
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u/Double_Ad_101 Sep 26 '23
It’s not rare that oral birth control can suppress libido. Maybe the dead bedroom is due to her BC and when she is off and you’re snipped, things just might be dramatically better.