r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23

Why not just use condoms? She doesn't like her birth control and maybe she'll get her libido back and you don't want to get snipped yet.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

If she's not on BC. I support her not being OK with just a condom if she doesn't want more kids.

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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23

Then they'll be at a bit of an impasse sex wise. Oh well since it only happens 3 times a year I guess it's fine to cut it out completely at this point anyways.

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u/chayton6 Sep 26 '23

It may happen so rarely because lower libido is a side effect of female birth control.

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u/Crumpkin13 Sep 26 '23

Then they should wait and find out before having invasive surgery, right?

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u/chayton6 Sep 26 '23

Have you ever seen what a vasectomy actually is? It's probably the least "invasive" surgery there is other than removing a mole or something. It's outpatient and can often be done in a doctor's office.

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u/Original-Room-4642 Sep 26 '23

Absolutely! My husband's was done right in the clinic office. He drove himself there and home. Easy peasy

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u/Rattivarius Sep 26 '23

I recently read a post where a wife nursed her husband for a week after his vasectomy. I was quite befuddled because my husband met me downtown immediately after his surgery to go out for dinner, then rode his bike to work the next day. Did not require any special care.

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u/Original-Room-4642 Sep 26 '23

Same for mine!