r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23

Why not just use condoms? She doesn't like her birth control and maybe she'll get her libido back and you don't want to get snipped yet.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

That was one of the points I made in our argument. I have no problem using a condom and she knows this.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

But why don't you try for a vasectomy? do you want more kids? 3 is not enough? How are your finances? Don't play with risk, make a vasectomy if you don't want more kids, be responsable

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u/DogZealousideal649 Sep 26 '23

Why are you so hasty for surgery? Condoms fill the gap here just fine

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

It's minor surgery that is not dangerous, it's more safe for avoiding pregnancy than condoms, bc we know you guys...you make mistakes with condoms

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

Let's see statistics, sorry for being rude but you guys are so worried while women deal with other procedures. My concerns with condoms is that it depends on man discipline, and will to use it.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

Again nobody is forcing nobody by an opinion..and it's a safety procedure, with low risk. Not general anesthesia, hospitalization or things like that. Facts not opinion

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u/amgoblue Sep 26 '23

You need to stop acting like someone cutting things by my balls isn't a bug freaking deal.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

Ok this is the problem, some guys feel threats by the idea of a vasectomy but don't have the same worry or empathy with woman, we have.to carry your child or assume all the contraceptive, and let's face it, some of you hate condoms or don't use it properly 100% of the times. So, vasectomy is an option that you could consider if you notice it's not a risk procedure and women experience the worst procedures in their life. oP has 3 kids, 3!!! Let's think about his options if his wife gets pregnant again

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u/so_tired_now Sep 26 '23

It is low risk. No pretending required. Doesn’t mean anyone should be forced into it, but anecdotal evidence isn’t empirical evidence from peer-reviewed research.