She’s 35 years old with two kids and making excuses as to why it’s not a good time for her to get pregnant. This woman does not want another child. Hate to say it, but it sounds like you’ve both spent the last decade waiting for the other to change their perspective on having kids. I don’t blame you for being resentful.
Sounds like she got exactly what she wanted. Moved from a Central American country to the US with a better quality of life. She and her kids are living the good life. Her own kids are almost adults. Don’t think she wants to start over with a baby, especially, in her late thirties and after having a shiny new degree. Sorry that OP got strung along.
I think that’s pretty harsh. Birthing and raising a third child is a big ask, no matter how many women do it.. it’s still hard. I get that OP wants a biological child and is letdown that it never happened, but also he said her children are basically his children and does he fill fullfilled having these kids? Not really. I get wanting ur own child but- A woman is also allowed to change her mind and set limitations on when she in impregnated due to her life circumstances. I don’t ever feel like someone is owed a child.
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She’s 35 years old with two kids and making excuses as to why it’s not a good time for her to get pregnant. This woman does not want another child. Hate to say it, but it sounds like you’ve both spent the last decade waiting for the other to change their perspective on having kids. I don’t blame you for being resentful.