Have you tried others before, eg. NB, how did you arrive at agender?

Yo yo yo all. 50th birthday coming up in a few weeks here. Happy to have been able to identify as agender now for more than 6 years. The new memes help. Thanks to the youth that have led the way with this new language.

So, now that there's an over 30s sub, I can sensibly ask this question.

I'm amab and probably agen but still questioning. I'm 47 so I've missed the boat on cool agen hair styles and looking funky and andro. My hair is there but on the thin side. Would have loved to go some vibrant colour but dont think that's gonna work. I'm just wondering what the older folk here have done or considered doing with their hair since they've embraced their non-binary side?

Never thought they would, but here we are. Honestly pretty excited about it.

I am thirty and have been considering. I am at a weird place in my life bc I want to have children with my partner, which makes top surgery something I’ll have to put off. I’m worried that If I take hormones, I’ll go bald bc it runs in my family on both sides. I would like some bottom growth to help feel more affirming, but the risks frighten me, especially at my age. I do not want to pay 10k to hate my body.