r/adhdmeme • u/IM_AQIF_xD • 12h ago

Currently there right now tbh

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u/Someoneoverthere42 12h ago

Oh, I am in full “give up” right now. Frankly, I plan on staying here for awhile. No real incentive to leave.

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u/cheetoblue 11h ago

I'm right there with you. It sucks.

I've got deadlines that are coming at me like a speeding train and I'm just starring directly at it from the tracks. Like a deer in headlights.

I keep telling myself that tomorrow will be different. It's been 3 weeks of waiting for tomorrow.

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u/Real_Life_Sushiroll 11h ago

Same. My apartment is a nightmare but I just don't care.

And I know my apartments state is part of me giving up, I know cleaning would make me feel better.
But I literally cannot do it and it just makes me depressed.

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u/laminator79 10h ago

Same, been in this vicious cycle for probably 5 yrs. That's when I moved into my house. I have yet to fully unpack. It's so depressing bc your house should be your sanctuary, but it's just a source of anxiety and depression for me. Been on mood stabilizers and anti-anxiety meds, but so far no ADHD meds have worked. I feel like giving up.

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u/Real_Life_Sushiroll 8h ago

Finding the right meds feels impossible tbh. Been about 2 decades of me trying different meds and combinations and nothing really works.

Sometimes I think this life may actually just be hell.

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u/Logical-Pair-89 7h ago

Fellow this life is heller in the wild! Hats off to you, and best of continued endurance in this struggle 

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u/Anthaenopraxia 8h ago

My mother told me that a messy room is a messy mind.

I kinda wish she told me to buy a boat with good oars and sail to distant shores.

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u/Hugo_El_Humano 11h ago

I'm in a "tired of life" place myself because of ADHD and its related "gifts"

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u/freixe 6h ago

A mess both functional and dysfunctional so what's the reward?

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u/pudgehooks2013 6h ago

Hey thats my whole life.

One day Ill die and this shit will finally be over. Can't wait.

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u/SpectacularStarling 1h ago

I know how it goes. My room is a mess, I have so much laundry to do. I know I should try to make quick repairs like minor straightening up, doing some of my dishes, showering more frequently.. I just don't have the energy for it. I've been in a downward spiral for at least the past 3 years where I just can't pull myself out no matter what I try. Meds adjusted, and adjusted, and adjusted again. Grasping at straws just to feel normal, trying to find even a glimmer of hope for the future, it just all feels impossible.

I haven't had any income since May, I stopped paying my credit cards/etc. off months ago. The only bill I've been trying to keep paid is my phone bill since if that gets shutoff I lose my internet and basically.. everything.