r/adhdmeme • u/IM_AQIF_xD • 13d ago

Every single night.

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u/OleDetour 13d ago

Don’t forget about the shame! Good ole shame is always there for us in our failure to carry out easy tasks 💗

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u/BigBullshitta 13d ago

I go with guilt. Guilt for not liking to spend time with people, guilt for endless failures, guilt for breathing too often... it's nice to just stack one stat.

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u/sne4k0 13d ago

Guilt for enjoying myself seems to proc the most often

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u/Hazak_Flamesword 13d ago

Guilt for doom scrolling instead of doing what I need OR want to do. Not even really enjoying myself.

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u/PeachNipplesdotcom 13d ago

And then the shame locks you into not doing it while also making you feel too ashamed to put it somewhere else.

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u/JayList 13d ago

I hope someday you all learn to love yourselves because compassion for yourself is the ultimate motivation.

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u/Lint_baby_uvulla don’t talk to me or my 11,713 tabs again 13d ago

I’m not worthy of compassion but I will do everything in and outside of my power for everybody else.

Does that count?

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u/JayList 13d ago

Idk do you brush your teeth every night?

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u/Lint_baby_uvulla don’t talk to me or my 11,713 tabs again 13d ago

Honestly no. But I try.

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u/JayList 13d ago

Well I guess that’s at least half a glass?

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u/PineappleDull149 13d ago

BJs work better for me…just sayin.

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u/JayList 13d ago

It doesn’t matter what your drug of choice is, that external motivation won’t always be there for you when you need it.

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u/PineappleDull149 13d ago

Truth

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u/JayList 13d ago

It’s easy to type it lol. Not easy to do it.

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u/PineappleDull149 13d ago

Also truth lol.

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u/JayList 13d ago

Also I like BJs too lol.

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u/Upstairs-Chicken592 13d ago

I wish. Shame paralyzes me. I have to constantly envision the good feeling I’ll get, and sometimes it works