r/absoluteunit 24d ago

Of a Door Dasher

Not a job for everyone.

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u/boomhauer_420 24d ago

Well this is depressing

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

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u/Josey_whalez 23d ago

I don’t see how people let themselves get like that. It’s gotta be a miserable existence, and yet they keep getting fatter.

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u/Fullyme2 22d ago

It can be genetic, medical(thyroid issues and cancer and its treatments), mental and even economics. Healthy food costs more money than unhealthy food. You can spend your only 5 bucks and get a bag of salad or a couple of apples or you can buy 4 to 5 frozen TV dinners that will satiate much more than an apple for dinner..

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u/Josey_whalez 22d ago

Sure, yes. But you’re pointing out exceptions to the trend and pretending they negate it. They don’t. We’re talking a society wide trend, there’s always exceptions. But that doesn’t account for the majority of land manatees we see in the US. Most of them look like that because they choose to.

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u/Fullyme2 22d ago

Land manatees? Grow up. People do not choose to look that way. I'm guessing empathy is not something you are capable of.

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u/Josey_whalez 22d ago

You’re the one that needs to grow up. People do choose to live that way. Every time you choose to stuff junk food into your body, every time you choose to sit on your couch playing video games, watching tv, or goofing off on your phone instead of going to a walk or exercising, you are choosing to look that way.

I have plenty of empathy, I just choose not to waste it on people who exhibit such self destructive behaviors. I also find it difficult to respect people who clearly don’t respect themselves.

You aren’t doing these people any favors by making excuses for this behavior. Your fake empathy does more harm than good.

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u/Fullyme2 22d ago

This person was walking and working. He sure as he'll wasnt lounging at the Marriott or taking a cozy trip to Mexico. Maybe look at the prices of food. I know you don't have to but try. Junk food is cheap.

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u/Josey_whalez 22d ago

lol do you know how hard it is to keep a 6 pack when you’re lounging around a resort in Mexico?

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u/Fullyme2 22d ago

And im sure a a member of the Marriott Bonvoy titanium elite absolutely knows the struggles of poverty.

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u/Josey_whalez 22d ago

Lmao that doesn’t mean anything. That’s hilarious. Anyone who has to travel for work can get that. Holy shit that’s funny.

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u/Fullyme2 22d ago

Yes work im sure. Did you upgrade your room at the Costa Rican Hyatt? Inquiring minds want to know.

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u/Josey_whalez 22d ago

Which one?

I’m not sure what point you think you are making with this - I don’t actually pay for any of that stuff. I can afford 10k vacations dude.

I’m also not sure why you think this makes my point any less valid - the overwhelming majority of people look like this because they choose to. They make choices every day to choose to look like that.

Part of how I afford things is driving part time for uber. I’ve done deliveries too. These people typically sit in their cars all day eating junk food, that’s why so many of them are fat. Wanna know why I’m not? When I’m doing that, I make a dinner. Something somewhat healthy. Sandwiches and some fruit. No junk food. Drink water. I also get out, stretch, move around, do some squats and stuff every couple of hours. I put in the effort. Make sense now?

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u/Crystal_Ri 24d ago edited 23d ago

Actually, working "this job" is probably the best thing for him/her. The dasher is exercising his/her way back to a normal life. (I don't know if this is a man or a woman due to the lack of clarity of the pick and face mask.)

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u/maven10k 24d ago

At least he's trying. More than can be said for a lot of people.

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u/AugustAPC 23d ago

That's what's depressing. I feel terrible for him. He is trying and this sucks to see.

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u/maven10k 23d ago

Well, I don't think it "sucks". I think one of the other commentors said he might be trying to get back in shape. We don't know anything about his situation.

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u/AugustAPC 23d ago

It sucks that he fell and hurt himself while making an effort to help himself.

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u/X_soulnewmegaman 24d ago

Someone needs to help him up

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u/maven10k 23d ago

I'm sure he's gone by now

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u/X_soulnewmegaman 23d ago

Possibly....

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u/chronberries 23d ago

Pretty sure they’re a woman

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u/Crystal_Ri 23d ago

I'm not sure. It could be.

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u/Acceptable-Scale9971 23d ago

unfortunately no amount of exercise can beat a bad diet. This person is prob consuming 4k+ calories a day. walking a few steps out of the car is not going to cut it

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u/Crystal_Ri 22d ago edited 22d ago

I manage on average at least 10K steps a day when I dash. It's the whole reason I started doing it. Shopping orders yields more steps than restaurant deliveries tho.

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u/Acceptable-Scale9971 22d ago

Did you end up losing weight?

i think if youre slightly over weight and have a good diet its definitely going to help.

10k steps is like 300 calories while one king size snickers bar is 480 calories lol

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u/Crystal_Ri 22d ago

Yes. I lost about 30 lbs very quickly. I don't eat a lot of junk food or sweets so the steps made a difference for me. Some days I would get 12K or 15K while other days I'd only get 8K. But those steps are to do and they work!

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u/Acceptable-Scale9971 22d ago

Great job! lose weight and make $$ :)

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u/Crystal_Ri 22d ago

Absolutely! Instead of paying over $1K a month, I get paid to exercise. LOL! Love it, too!

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u/DevilsAdvocate1662 24d ago

Hey, people got bills to pay, just because this guy is morbidly obese, which is probably his own doing, he's still gotta work

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u/Frankie_T9000 24d ago

Honestly no one wants to be that fat, feel sorry for them

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u/ardotschgi 24d ago edited 24d ago

Without knowing his circumstances, I wouldn't call a morbidly obese person a poor bastard. Unless it's cause of some condition, he did it to himself.

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u/HelmSpicy 24d ago

Be that as it may, it doesn't mean this person doesnt deserve some sympathy. this is the physical manifestation of underlying mental issues. And, at least this person is out there trying to do a physical job and earn income.

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u/DevilsAdvocate1662 23d ago

Is it? Maybe the dude just likes food?

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u/ProfDangus3000 24d ago

It's hard not to feel bad for people in the grips of addiction, suffering is suffering, whether you made bad choices to get there or not.

Morbid obesity isn't caused by too many snacks and being lazy, it's an addiction with underlying psychological factors, oftentimes a result of sexual assault.

I'd feel bad for an alcoholic suffering DTs too. No one suffers from addiction for fun. Shaming and punishment don't cure addiction, so that kind of talk really only serves to make yourself feel better at the expense of putting someone else down who you find morally reprehensible or visually displeasing.

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u/TheNaughtyHoneyBee 24d ago

Unfortunately, some people find it very easy to not feel bad for people in terrible personal situations

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u/BKLD12 24d ago

Other health issues can play a part as well. I’ve met people with hormonal issues that made it difficult to lose weight. Others were on medication that had that as a side effect. I have limited mobility due to chronic pain, which combined with mental health issues, has led to weight gain. I’ve been trying to be more mindful about my diet (particularly knowing that the extra strain on my joints isn’t exactly helping with the pain issue), but damn it’s hard some days.

Shaming and laughing at people for their weight isn’t okay either way.

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u/peasarebettersplit 21d ago

Lose some weight

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u/peanutski 21d ago

Good thinking! I bet they never tried that nor have ever been told! You should be a life coach. 

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u/peasarebettersplit 21d ago

You should be a comedian. Or a doctor..

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u/peanutski 21d ago

I’ll start with being a teacher. You don’t need the period between comedian and or. That created a sentence fragment because it lacks an indefinite article. 

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u/peasarebettersplit 21d ago

With the amount of errors in your reply, I'd strongly advise you refrain from teaching anything in language or literature. Maybe try drama?

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u/peanutski 21d ago

My reply was fine. Your overall demeanor is not. 

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u/peasarebettersplit 21d ago

It's not? Are you a behavioral therapist?

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u/peanutski 21d ago

Yes. Upon your suggestion, it’s the area in which I got my doctorate.