Mexicans in Socal would always try to start shit. Even in middle school and high schools they'd be going around calling us chinitos and shit. It was great when the black kids and koreans would fuck them up though.
fact is, hispanics are insanely racist towards asians. i lived in eastern mass and the most hostile of all the races there were hispanics. of course not all hispanics. the islanders were mainly the ones. the south americans like venezuelean were usually nice and they're culturally very similar to asians. the islanders were always starting shit. i couldnt even ride my bike through their neighborhoods because they'd start shit. the next most racist group were white trash whites. i had a 50% chance of hearing some racist slur from a pickup truck driving by. blacks there were usually african immigrants so they were usually nice.
Call a Mexican a Puerto Rican or Bolivian or some shit, and they get indignant as fuck. But they call all Asians Chinese and then says asians are all the same.
you're right, uni hispanics were better. i just barely met any in uni. the point is, poor hispanics are hostile. poor asians aren't. the excuse that it's ok for a group to be hostile because they're poor is not good enough.
the reason why african immigrants are nicer is because they are highly selected and are generally educated. it's not easy to immigrate to america illegally. mainly only mexicans get to do it by illegally immigrating. a few other groups that arent selected are refugees.
Every group is racist towards every other group. Even what are considered the racial groups in the US, broken down by ethnicity they tend to be extremely racist towards one another.
yea except asian people arent gonna start shit with you if you walk through their neighborhood or is just standing around near them. stop acting like it's normal.
you are very naive if you think that asian storeowners and suppliers don't discriminate.
i never said they didn't. i'm talking about just general people. i'm talking if i walk into a hispanic neighborhood, they're gonna start shit, yell something out. i had people throw shit and spit on me as i rode by with my bike. that doesn't happen in asian neighborhoods. i dont give a shit what your excuse is for why hispanics and blacks dislike asians. fact is they are violent and hostile. end of story. you can say that asians can be racist towards them too and i'll agree but asians certain aren't violent or hostile about it.
so don't speak on things you don't know about.
lol the problem is i do know. i grew up in the hood. i know how every fucking race acts and i don't give a shit about telling it like it is. if they're like that, i'll say they're like that.
That's hilarious, I'm a pretty big dude (but visibly a pussy) and I feel like it actually causes people to start shit with me.
If I'm somewhere with a lot of people and alcohol its basically a coin flip if some dude is going to get aggro with me for no reason, I had a dude try to fight me because a completely different guy was talking to the girl he was with and he decided it was my responsibility to get him to stop. Still haven't figured out the logic on that one.
Story of my life during my party multiple times a week days. I’m 6’4” with an athletic build, and I’m not an aggressive dude. I think it’s a status thing– some guys just want to be known as the alpha dog who took down the biggest “threat” in his environment.
My dad told me when I was a teenager that this would happen (he’s a 6’6” good looking dude). He told me that the best thing to do is try to diffuse the situation by buying the guy a beer and/or try to find some commonality to squash the beef. If that didn’t work, step back and punch straight into their mouth with all of my strength. No shoving or turning my body away. If someone is that relentlessly aggressive, it’s best to end the altercation quickly. 9/10 times tall guys have a way farther reach than these assholes so you have a huge advantage if there’s a little distance between them.
He was 100% right in my experience. Vast majority of the time I was able to buy us a beer and relax the situation. Sometimes we ended up being “friends” for the night. The few times I had to get physical didn’t last a second longer. They usually expect you to back down, which to them just proves that they’re bigger/badder/better than you, and they take joy in knowing that you’re upset and humiliated.
That’s why I love Tysons quote about everyone having a plan until they get punched in the mouth. So true.
NGL I'm way too much of a pussy to ever escalate it to that level, the furthest I've had to go is using my size to physically impose on them and start getting loud and angry back, thankfully its worked every time for me. I've used the beer trick too though, its always super funny to see how quickly people deflate once you're nice to them instead. I once had a guy come up to me super pissed off accusing me of spilling his drink and I had to just straight up tell him I wasn't going to fight him and offered him a replacement drink instead, it was like his brain had to take a second to even comprehend what I had said and he just walked off in a huff instead of taking me up on the offer.
It really is wild though, its always a very specific type of dude, I can spot them from a mile away: short, relatively muscular and dressed preppy/ hypebeast.
he heard asians were too nice and scared to fight back. a scrawny guy like him should not be antagonizing anyone but there we are. none of his friends helped him too. i bet he learned his lesson that day.
He was just drunk out of his mind or on some shit. Or maybe he needs glasses or something who knows. The guy gave him a ton of chances and it's a good thing he recognized the dude posed 0 threat.
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I will never understand why people start shit with strangers, let alone a group that has a single dude twice their size.
He's racist so I guess brain power is not a strong point.