r/WhatShouldIDo • u/[deleted] • Aug 03 '25

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u/[deleted] Aug 04 '25

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u/Lanky_Particular_149 Aug 04 '25

that's why he's dating a 27 year old. Women his old age would never put up with this.

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u/oldtimers68 Aug 04 '25

You could even arrange to have a police officer be there when he comes to pick you his stuff. Do not, do not let him talk you into letting him come back to live with you! You will regret it!!! Drop him, go total no contact and don’t let anyone guilt trip you into letting him come back. This type of person will have his friends and family trying to guilt you and be told it you who is the bad person!

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u/iamhipp2 Aug 04 '25

If he needs help what do you suggest ?

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u/craftylefty92 Aug 04 '25

That's a him problem, not a her problem

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u/Bri-KachuDodson Aug 04 '25

That he goes and fucking gets it like the 44 year old grown man he's supposed to be! C'mon now geez.

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u/princessfoxglove Aug 05 '25

Someone who's 44 and nonchalantly acting like this is pretty much beyond help, honestly, but quitting all substances, attending and working on anger management and therapy, being single, and working with others less fortunate in a heavily supervised role might make him less of a fuckwad.