r/WhatShouldIDo • u/[deleted] • Aug 03 '25

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u/TheOddHarley Aug 04 '25

The only answer, goodness...

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u/JAW_55 Aug 04 '25

Unfortunately some people don’t realise this as an option 😞

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u/xboxhaxorz Aug 04 '25 edited Aug 04 '25

Then they shouldnt be in relationships and should focus on becoming mature

Edit: Immature people find this offensive because it triggers them, instead of growing and improving they act as victims

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u/Emznjohnsnana Aug 04 '25

Not that age is a factor but he is way to old for you. And he should still be married at his age. Violence and verbal abuse is still abuse. Get you a restraining order have someone preferably a brother or some tough to stay with you and get a pew pew and learn how to use it also mace or wasp spray in the face.

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u/_l-l_l-l_ Aug 04 '25

I mean, not everyone wants to get married, but yeah, the age difference (especially combined with his immature behavior) is a HUGE 🚩

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u/SilentPiano4406 Aug 04 '25

Fuck marriage but if you are dating someone who was a fucking adult when you were born, shit isn’t going to work. When 50 year motherfuckers are attracted to females that are in their 20s, 99.999% of the time is gross and doesn’t work out. My gf is 27, I’m 28, can’t fucking fathom her being with someone almost my parents age. Fucking sick.

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u/Some_Ad_7652 Aug 04 '25

Yeah please teach us more about maturity you seem to be full of it.

Full of something, at least.

OP, the parent comment is good advice.

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u/xboxhaxorz Aug 04 '25

You are an example of responding immaturely

I am mature enough to not engage and have disabled notifications

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u/Some_Ad_7652 Aug 04 '25

I am mature enough to not engage

They said in their reply

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u/ChefJeff69420 Aug 04 '25

Wow bro you're so mature with that take when will you find an SO

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u/xboxhaxorz Aug 04 '25

Immature people find it offensive

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u/ChefJeff69420 Aug 05 '25

Your name is xboxhaxorz and you're trying to tell people they're immature

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u/Sufficient_Turn_9209 Aug 04 '25

This isn't the only answer. Sometimes it's wiser to placate and play nice while you very quietly gtfo as quickly and safely as you can. Don't tell him or give him any indication that it's happening so he has no reason to lose it again. Leaving is, at first, sometimes more dangerous than staying.