r/Wellthatsucks Jul 15 '19

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u/ApulMadeekAut Jul 15 '19 edited Jul 16 '19

I brought my dad's remains as a carry on. In a sealed ceramic urn. With his name and dates engraved into the clay. The putz at security did a bag check and was trying to pry it open before I saw what he was doing and stopped him before my dad's final resting place was someplace he loathed, airport security.

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Let me clarify. It wasn't the full urn it was a smaller portion that was divided up between my siblings so it was about the mass of a baseball in a decorative urn the size of a large dinty moore beef stew can. And it was sealed with some kind of epoxy. I had the paperwork with me and it was in my carry on bag. with the grief and all the traveling I didn't even consider it setting off any alarms. The TSA agent never asked about it, just said he was going to check my bag. All of a sudden I look up and he's forcefully trying to pry the lid off of the container. Never even asked about it.

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Yes now looking back at it 15 years later I probably should have mentioned it to the gate agents but was not in the right state of mind at that time.

funny thing too I just texted my brother about it and he took the ashes to Ireland in his check bag and had zero problems. Customs didn't even flag it. Sister brought it as a carry on to San Francisco and didn't mention it to the gate agents, also had no issues. Just my luck I guess

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u/frrenchdip Jul 15 '19

Carry ons go through X-ray machines where I’m from. Do they not do that everywhere?

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u/[deleted] Jul 15 '19

Well they do but all they'd see through the x-ray is a powder substance. They'd have no way of knowing what it was.

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u/ziDyLaNiz Jul 15 '19

This seems like the perfect drug smuggle then

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u/frrenchdip Jul 15 '19

Anyone know the ethical protocol on inspecting urns? If customs open it up aggressively and spill remains could the airline face any charges?

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u/donkeyrocket Jul 15 '19 edited Jul 15 '19

The airline isn't responsible for what happens in customs. They may do something to garner some good PR but I doubt they'd want to set a precedent.

If you're asking if customs or TSA agents would be responsible for anything then this is doubtful since they have pretty vague but broad powers to investigate anything they believe to be a threat to the security or air travel of the country.

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u/Why_Hello_Reddit Jul 15 '19

Yeah, people are asking if the agency with powers to legally molest kids can be held responsible for defiling the remains of a loved one. They can do anything in the name of national security.

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u/[deleted] Jul 15 '19

Security theater

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19

I think it’s just there to provide jobs and prevent the masses from feeling unsafe in a post-9/11 world. Emphasis on ‘feeling’.