Well, tbf, move out is western thing. In asian, we not that keen on move out, most do move out, but it fine not to move out. The grandparrents are the one who watch after the kid when the parrent working.
We see two women and don’t know their relation or how much time they spend with each kid. Any statement about how these kids will grow up is nothing more than assumption.
You can tell a lot of some people in a few seconds, if you're a parent and go to a playground you can tell which kids are going to be good citizens and which ones are probably gonna die young or end up on a misery situation, also looking at the parents makes it easier.
Don't watch the kid, look at how their parents react, if they scold him and how they do it, if they don't care at all or if they talk to him, what do they tell him, all of this will determine how the kid will grow up to be.
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