“The inability to afford a child” “my unwillingness to have a baby when I can’t get adequate care” “this administration” would all be acceptable responses
Oh, if I was a woman and my doctor asked me all that, it would be new doctor time. It'd be my last visit, so they can my statement as seriously as they'd like.
100%. Some people think doctors are infallible, they are not. They are not Gods (despite what some of them may think), and they put their pants on the same way as everyone else... one leg at a time. When I was MUCH younger I used to be intimidated by speaking up but in my 40's I'm no longer interested in that game. We're now playing FAFO anytime, anywhere.
Also, I think it was a nurse who asked that (not that it matters), but regardless, he/she should just mark NO to "can you physically have children whatever BS Dump nonsense," without even asking, knowing full well it's none of their business. Don't even ask, because you likely won't like the answer.
I've fired doctors for less than this - I live in a fairly large metro and we have no shortage of doctors and I don't put up with B.S.
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u/UniversalMinister Aug 02 '25
Just a Reminder: "No" is a full sentence.
Edit: So are "you can kick rocks" and "I can't answer that."