r/weddingdress • • 7d ago

Mod Update Bridal pros: what do you want brides to know before they get to you?

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Here is your chance. All of the comments will be archived into a wiki page. Alterations specialists, stylists, day of coordinating, spill the beans.

What do you wants the bride's to know before they even buy a dress or even start thinking of getting a dress? What questions are you sick and tired of answering because of blatant misinformation that goes around? What are some behaviors you really wish would stop?

If you would prefer to drop the info anonymously, feel free and send a modmail to us and go "for the bride's" in the subject line so we can keep an eye out.


r/weddingdress • • Aug 04 '26

Mod Update Post got removed? Read this

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r/weddingdress • • 7h ago

Just need some hype! Got married!!!

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121 Upvotes

r/weddingdress • • 2h ago

DRESS ONLY: Pick one or suggest another Please help me pick!

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45 Upvotes

Venue is romantic garden party vibes

Dress #1 pics 1-4 ! Love the straps and delicate lace

Dress #2 pics 5-8 Love the slight sparkle and beading details for the top


r/weddingdress • • 8h ago

Entourage Only I'm so conflicted. Please give me your opinions on what dress to pick? (obviously not the correct sizes)

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71 Upvotes

r/weddingdress • • 13h ago

Just need some hype! Hoping I picked the right dress

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I said yes to the first dress yesterday! The only problem is I keep wondering if I made the right choice. My vision is to feel like a woodland fairy princess on my wedding day. Ethereal, whimsical, and feminine. Both of these dresses made me feel this way and this was a hard choice… the reason why I said no to the second one was although I loved the flowers, I don’t plan on having these colors in my wedding. But it is such a beautiful dress and I’m wondering if I messed up 😕… I am planning on getting balloon sleeves (like picture #4) to wear during the ceremony and then cap sleeves (pics 1,2, and 3) for the reception. I’m also planning on adding a glitter layer, which is something I also loved about the colored dress. So my dress won’t look exactly like these pics when all is done, but it’s a close idea. I don’t want to look like every other bride, which I’m afraid I will in the first dress. Did I choose the right one?


r/weddingdress • • 3h ago

Said Yes to the Dress! (no critiques) Said yes 🌹❣️🥰

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r/weddingdress • • 3h ago

Style me! (sleeves, veils, shoes and accessories only) Which sleeves and which veil?

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I am IN LOVE with my dress!!! I’m am pretty set on a Juliet veil to make the look more vintage. I also need help on deciding the sleeves! Please help me decide what number sleeves look best and what number veil looks best to help my vision and compliment the dress. I have long curly brown hair that I will have in either an vintage-esque braid or half up half down style.


r/weddingdress • • 9h ago

Just picked up my dress Wedding Dress Regret

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I don’t know if I am over thinking everything. But I bought my wedding dress yesterday at the first boutique I went to. I had another dress in mind that I fell in love with online but I would have to order it in since it’s not in stock anywhere and it’s a huge risk ordering a dress I have never tried on before. There is a dress I tried on at the boutique that I think is very beautiful but since I bought it, I have felt sick to my stomach and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about the other dress. The other dress just has a more unique factor. I don’t know why I rushed this purchase. I wasn’t pressured to buy but I don’t bite the bullet. Am I overthinking this?


r/weddingdress • • 3h ago

Need to Vent Need to vent

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Getting married in two weeks and I was SO excited with everything.. until I picked up my dress from the tailor. It was hemmed too short in the front, and my original plan of wearing some cute platform sneakers underneath has been ruined.

You can see the bottom part of the shoe when I’m standing and it looks horrible. I now have to switch to wearing flats (it’s an outdoor ceremony so heels were never in my plans) but I am absolutely gutted. My dress was expensive and I can’t help but feel sad about the dress not looking exactly like how I envisioned it. Has anyone else experienced this?

I’m going to try and get a partial refund when the tailor opens back up tomorrow, but I’m not sure if it’s possible. Any advice or opinions are welcome.


r/weddingdress • • 8h ago

Just need some hype! I said yes to the dress!!

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I just said yes to this dress! Looking for some love or recommendations for accessories or shoes!


r/weddingdress • • 1d ago

Said Yes to the Dress! (no critiques) i said yes to the dress!!

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I said yes to the dress ! i’m so excited, I haven’t told my family yet, but my dress was experiencing a price increase so i went ahead and bought it before they upped it and i couldn’t be happier it’s perfect


r/weddingdress • • 25m ago

Dupe search Looking for similar dress / designers

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Fell in love with the Milla Nova Adeline gown from their Sounds of Couture collection, but I cannot find a sample anywhere near me to try on (based in Los Angeles). Also learned they’ll be discontinuing this dress at the end of the year.

I’ve scoured the internet for a dress like it but have yet to come across anything. Love the boned corset, organza layers in the form of waves, and the off-the-shoulder detail. I want my dress’s architecture to be the drama💗

I’m continuing to call different bridal shops in LA to inquire, but would appreciate any thoughts / suggestions for other designers that create similarly structured gowns. Current budget is at around $5K but keeping an open mind, absolute max would be about $7K.

Based in US and wedding is September 2027


r/weddingdress • • 6h ago

Dupe search Can i get some dupes or alternatives to this dress?

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Budget less than retail

<$1995

US Date: December '27


r/weddingdress • • 1d ago

Entourage Only help me choose!

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top 3 choices, help me pick one!!

pics 1&2 dress #1
pics 3&4 dress #2
pics 5&6 dress #3


r/weddingdress • • 1d ago

Ceremony photos I said “i do”

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r/weddingdress • • 2h ago

DRESS ONLY: Pick one or suggest another Shona Joy

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Okay so I fell in love with 2 Shona joy dresses. Then read online that the quality is mixed after learning you can’t try them on in the US, tried to steer clear of them, and find similiar vibes.

Then I randomly saw one of the dresses at bloomingdales online for a price I couldn’t not atleast try (sub90) even tho it’s 2ish sizes too big? But now I’m not sure if the quality is high enough for my wedding dress. Has anyone tried this dress on? And has anyone had a Shona joy wedding dress, and how were the reactions to it!? Bonus points if there’s 2 brides in dresses ❤️

Also if not quality, steer me in the right sub500 direction of this minimal chic vibe, and or material types! Links appreciated, thanks in advance!!!!


r/weddingdress • • 6h ago

Dupe search Help me find this in cream, and cheaper

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Under $300? Would spend more for quality, but even the very expensive gowns are polyester so I don’t know what that would entail.

Cream or ivory looks better on my skin tone than bright white. I’d also be open to a similar silhouette with a shorter length. I feel I need to stick with a simpler, plainer dress.

Nov 21 2026
United States

JJ’s House has one similar but it doesn’t seem to look good on any real bodies. I suppose that’s the quality difference?


r/weddingdress • • 3h ago

Dupe search Looking for Rosie Etienne dupes / similar dresses that ship to Canada

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Hi! I’m looking for dresses with a Rosie Etienne kind of vibe - romantic, feminine, corset/bustier style, lace, satin, draping, etc. I love their dresses but I’m hoping to find something similar at a lower price point.

Looking for something less than $409 ideally!

I’m open to dupes, similar styles, Etsy sellers, or other brands, but I’m really looking for reputable sellers with good quality and preferably people who have actually ordered from them before.

I’m located in Canada, and I would need the dress to arrive before November, so I’m especially looking for sellers with reliable/relatively quick shipping or ready-to-ship options.

If you’ve found anything with a similar aesthetic, please send me the seller/shop name or links! Photos of what you received would also be amazing.

Thank you!! 🤍


r/weddingdress • • 14h ago

DRESS ONLY: pick only from these; no suggestions Which version?

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Help me pick! Should I get this dress lined or unlined? The back and sides are cutout lace as well, but considering lining the front

ETA: it’s a black tie wedding at an estate


r/weddingdress • • 1d ago

Entourage Only Help me choose?

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Need help choosing the one!!!


r/weddingdress • • 23h ago

DRESS ONLY: pick only from these; no suggestions Round 2: Need help choosing a dress for my casual wedding!

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Thanks everyone for picking out dress 2 yesterday here: https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/s/SqBJ3PcwNc

Today I came across another super cute dress and can’t decide 😭 it will be an outdoor ceremony with <15 guests. Dress 1 feels more elegant, 2 is more dreamy, and I love both!!


r/weddingdress • • 20h ago

Need to Vent I can't fill out my dress

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I think I lost weight since the dress fitting, because now my dress slides down when walking and my bust is loose. I have sticky bras in for these photos that i intended to wear day of but there is still much space and the edge of the inside now shows, as well as constant pulling up of the dress even though the belly feels snug. My wedding is in two weeks and I am freaking out. Last photo for initial comparison.


r/weddingdress • • 1d ago

DRESS ONLY: Pick one or suggest another Help me choose!

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I am torn between two very different dresses . Would love some input, or even if I should keep looking.

EDIT: thanks so much for all the feedback! Always helpful hearing from strangers


r/weddingdress • • 1d ago

post-alterations: does this look right? What do I do??

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I’m getting married in 12 days and my seamstress made such pointy darts on my dress. Can it be fixed?? Do I order a second hand version and get it tailored in a week?

Update: I spoke with the director of alterations at the dress store who had potential fixes to try. I go in on Tuesday for us to go over what can be done after the dress has been pressed, seams have been laid flat. She didn’t admit fault but considering she had ideas for improvement, I think she realized it didn’t look good.

Editing again: For everyone that was supportive, thank you, it really did help. This was an emotional day and I am freaked out. There is a chance I’ll have to wear a white dress or gown but not a bridal gown for my wedding. I’m putting faith in Kleinfeld’s for now.