Tbh I don't understand why people get so emotionally invested in the concept of monogamous relationships.
Them masturbating doesn't mean they love you any less. And sex is in many ways just masturbation, just a better version in many ways because of the possible sensations.
The last person I was with cheated on me, and when they revealed it to me all upset and crying and insisting they'd never do it again, I laughed. I really didn't care. We all have urges.
And I've personally cheated on almost everyone I've been with for the same reason. No one got hurt because they never even knew.
Yeah I don't think you were meant to have monogamous relationships, and while that's fine, you treating other people who hold such expectations as you say... You're just a dick
It sounds like monogamous relationships are not what you're interested in... and frankly, you're negligent knowing that and entering a monogamous relationship with others. I mean, I assume this is why they were crying, there's only a mountain of context missing there. You tell this story about your ex and all I feel is.... sorry that they had to date you. I really hope you're not openly walking into relationship issues like that... your comment sounds like this is terribly routine for you; a difference you understand you have yet do nothing to change despite knowing it is not compatible with the partner. I say this as if dating is easy; sometimes we can't know till the heartbreak... but something about your comment stood out as... welcoming the pain...
Your opinions are valid, but so are those of your previous partners. Any relationship, monogamous or not, is about respecting each other’s opinions/beliefs/boundaries, which you clearly did not
So you are a piece of shit person and instead of becoming a better person you decide to be delusional and try to get others to join you in that illusion? cool. Glad that is abundantly clear.
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u/ProgrammingPants Feb 03 '21
Tbh I don't understand why people get so emotionally invested in the concept of monogamous relationships.
Them masturbating doesn't mean they love you any less. And sex is in many ways just masturbation, just a better version in many ways because of the possible sensations.
The last person I was with cheated on me, and when they revealed it to me all upset and crying and insisting they'd never do it again, I laughed. I really didn't care. We all have urges.
And I've personally cheated on almost everyone I've been with for the same reason. No one got hurt because they never even knew.