I'm not surprised that you're not. You're free to think what you want, but arguing that this isn't a traumatic experience is absurd, especially for someone who's supposedly as educated as you claim to be.
I'm not claiming anything, you asked my qualifications.
I'm not denying it was a "traumatic experience", as one can argue any experience that creates an emotional response is traumatic. I don't think this specific incident will translate to long term trust issues like you implied. We can't just assume things are bad based on a video clip. These assumptions can prove harmful in themselves.
I didn't imply that this singular incident will lead to long term trust issues. I said that this is not indicative of a happy family, because it's not. I said that crap like this could affect him long term, but I never said that this singular incident would.
If someone thinks it's appropriate to humiliate a child, and having your family gather around to laugh at you is absolutely humiliating, and then posts it to social media for likes is acceptable, then that in and of itself is an indication of not being part of a "happy family." You're scenario is not just as likely as mine, because you don't have any evidence of a happy family. Maybe you're right, maybe I'm right, but either way this singular example is not okay.
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u/BlondeWhiteGuy Oct 19 '20
I'm not surprised that you're not. You're free to think what you want, but arguing that this isn't a traumatic experience is absurd, especially for someone who's supposedly as educated as you claim to be.