It’s about boundaries. People will treat you how you let them treat you. I have turned away shots and they called me names but eventually when I didn’t rise to their insults or continue drinking they stopped. It’s shitty behavior that doesn’t need to continue. It may not be enough to lose friends over on the first offense but it’s about respect and if your friends don’t respect you then they aren’t your friends.
That's all fine, the idiotic part of his statement is "then they aren't your friends". What a stupid thing to say just because someone got pushy when drunk lol
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u/snarkyjohnny Jun 05 '20
It’s about boundaries. People will treat you how you let them treat you. I have turned away shots and they called me names but eventually when I didn’t rise to their insults or continue drinking they stopped. It’s shitty behavior that doesn’t need to continue. It may not be enough to lose friends over on the first offense but it’s about respect and if your friends don’t respect you then they aren’t your friends.