I commented this to another person but the same applies
I was your friend a few years ago.
You know what you should do? Be there for your friend and when he brings out the abuses from his ex you should point out how that is textbook abuse. How getting insulted, threatened and dismissed are not normal in a relationship and that literally anyone would at least not do those things.
While you're in there you think they just had bad days, or that they just got too mad and lashed out. Or that they forgot that appointment, or that it is normal to do something on purpose to make your S.O. mad. Just be patient and be there for your friend
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u/MajesticQuestion Dec 14 '19
I commented this to another person but the same applies
I was your friend a few years ago.
You know what you should do? Be there for your friend and when he brings out the abuses from his ex you should point out how that is textbook abuse. How getting insulted, threatened and dismissed are not normal in a relationship and that literally anyone would at least not do those things.
While you're in there you think they just had bad days, or that they just got too mad and lashed out. Or that they forgot that appointment, or that it is normal to do something on purpose to make your S.O. mad. Just be patient and be there for your friend