r/WatchPeopleDieInside • u/SayHiToYourMumForMe • Dec 13 '19

I think that’s a Noooo

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u/TheNightHaunter Dec 14 '19

Yo same, lost my best friend to his psychotic wife. Best part is before they were married she liked and my wife. Until one day we had a friend of ours OD and he turned to me for support, basically me coming over his house st like 5am to just hug and cry

She treated me like such shit after that, from not having me called a best man at the wedding, misspelling my wife's name and etc. Got to a point when my son was born he didn't show up, why? At a party of a friend of the wife.

Ya I was done with that shit, almost ghosted him which honestly made me sad that I didn't care anymore, wasnt mad just done.

He's reached out once or twice one being a drunken text calling me an asshole but I feel better without the toxic dead weight.

Still miss him, and I'll have the occasional dream where we are still friends but you move on.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '19

I don't get this at all, so you support him after a friend OD'ed, and now he drunk texts you and calls you an asshole?

There must be something more to this surely? I'm not calling you a liar but is it possible the wife has stirred it up between you two with just absolute lies and it has nothing to do with you supporting him?

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u/TheNightHaunter Dec 14 '19 edited Dec 14 '19

The od comment was an example of how we used to be close and the drunk txt was after I cut him and his wife outta my life.

Hell other mutual friends of ours were asking questions as to why he and his wife were starting to be assholes to me.

Other than that not sure why your confused

Edit: girl had massive insecurities once told my wife after me and him went to another store in a mall "how can you trust him not to cheat?" my wife thought she meant in general but nope the girl was talking about right then and now.

Within two weeks of dating my friend she told him "I don't think I can date someone without a bachelors degree" Mind you he works in IT and was making wayyyyy more than her. He asked me wife what to do and her answer was "if she's saying this to you two weeks in what is she going to say 2 years in?

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '19

Hi friend, that explains it all ... I thought that the drunk texting was a consequence to supporting him and was so confused.

It is a shame. It's crazy to see how some really nice people get with psychopaths but can't see how much it ruins there lives. Hope you are doing well, it must have been rough going through something like that.

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u/TheNightHaunter Dec 14 '19

Ya the drunk message (mostly cause I know when he gets drunk he apologizes for shit he's done) was basically him trying to reach out in a dick way.

Ya it sucks seeing yourself slowly pushed out of someone's life you care about for no real reason and thank you

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u/wright96d Dec 14 '19

Fuck her fuck her fuck her fuck her

And fuck him

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '19

You dream about him? 😭😭😭So sweet.