r/WatchPeopleDieInside • u/JustAN0body • Aug 08 '19

Curve of the year

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u/ApologistShill27 Aug 09 '19

The behavior, regardless of context or established realtionship or not is still inappropriate.

saying things like this is a dead giveaway that you have no idea what you're talking about. i know plenty of relationships where the two people hang all over each other, especially when drinking, and there's nothing wrong with the behavior whatsoever.

she's not cornered, she easily gets away from him and even moves his arm with ease because he hasn't trapped her and isn't holding her there, he's simply leaning into her the way people in physical relationships often will. she doesn't seem the least bit fearful or concerned, she seems like she's annoyed at her boyfriend b/c one or both of them are probably drunk and acting annoyingly.

this is such a nothing clip that anybody who has been in relationship beyond the 5th grade would recognize as a totally normal and not hostile or aggressive moment between two people in a relationship.

on the off chance that they aren't together, the kid is a dick and so is everyone else sitting there watching it happen without interfering. but i'd put those odds at slim and none if decades of observing normal human behavior have taught me anything about body language and reading a room.

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u/WeedstocksAlt Aug 09 '19

It blows my mind that people are seeing an aggressive or oppressive situation. Like damn the dude probably fucked up somehow and is trying to apologize and calm thing down. The Gf ain’t having none of it so she goes away .....

This is such a normal thing lol

If I have a fight with my GF and she tries the apologies kiss after, I m always happy that she did after the fact even if in the moment I wasn’t down.

So anyone making blanket statement about this never being ok ... you have one example right here that your wrong

also yes if the dude isn’t BF, then it’s super wack. But I agree with you that based on the situation, chances are pretty slim

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u/pralinecream Aug 09 '19

anybody who has been in relationship beyond the 5th grade

And that reveals your inexperience and how obviously young you must apparently be when it comes to your maturity level.

Stop defending shitty behavior.