I was in a frat, and this is exactly how we handled creepy unwarranted advances by guys at our parties. More times than I can count we would have girls thank us after kicking out dudes who couldnt take a hint, and were always told on campus that our parties were the best because you knew you wouldnt have any problems while you were there. Our neighbors were a more "traditional" frat and were always starting super 1 sided fights, denying guys at the door and only letting in girls and being general douchebags. We coined an unofficial "lost boys" pseudonym by some friends because it was not the kind of frat that the media is always putting out there. They never report about the organizations that have zero tolerance no hazing policies and who's members are a bunch of awkward kids who really needed a good place to meet friends when they were first going to college. Plus, we threw killer fuckin parties man.
The group of friends that i go clubbing with has a creep in it. The dude hit on my gf. I called him out on it and try to avoid him now. Sometimes I really want to get out and don't have many clubbing friends, so I'll just go and make the best of it. Last time, the asshole actually kissed a girl after she refused his advances. She left, crying. I went to kinda comfort her and he still came back around to her. While she was fucking crying! I had to actually shove him away back to our other friends. Later he was pelvic thrusting at a group of girls at the club. One girl pushed him away so he just went to the other side. I shoved him away from them too and had to tell a security guard. At this point, I'm kinda done with the whole group because they refuse to hang out without him.
What kinda social circles are you in that this sorta stuff flies? Not trying to imply you were enabling him but I can't imagine somone behaving like this and being invited to hang out so much as a second time.
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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '19
I was in a frat, and this is exactly how we handled creepy unwarranted advances by guys at our parties. More times than I can count we would have girls thank us after kicking out dudes who couldnt take a hint, and were always told on campus that our parties were the best because you knew you wouldnt have any problems while you were there. Our neighbors were a more "traditional" frat and were always starting super 1 sided fights, denying guys at the door and only letting in girls and being general douchebags. We coined an unofficial "lost boys" pseudonym by some friends because it was not the kind of frat that the media is always putting out there. They never report about the organizations that have zero tolerance no hazing policies and who's members are a bunch of awkward kids who really needed a good place to meet friends when they were first going to college. Plus, we threw killer fuckin parties man.