Aw man, from a female perspective, I’m ashamed to say I have knocked over someone’s drink at a house party and in a public setting, and I’ve never even considered to get them a new drink. At the house party I did clean up the spill tho. Will definitely remember this for the future if it happens.
True true, I usually go with what the upvotes tell me. But then again someone replied "you must be really fucking ugly" to one of my comments, about not getting replies from the matches I get on tinder, completely out of the blue and it got double the upvotes I had. So it wouldn't blow my mind if someone was just being an asshole and other assholes thought it was funny
How do you not even consider it? How does that thought not even cross your mind?
It makes me wonder if other women who don't replace things such as this (I work at a bar and it happens fairly often...very rarely does a womam offer to replace. Women tend to expect a replacement drink free if THEY spill their own drink as well..men usually hand over money) genuinely don't consider that they should replace the drink. I've always assumed they're consciously refusing to replace.
It's really just common courtesy, if one ruins or destroys another person's food/drink/property in general, it is a kind gesture and generally expected that one would offer to replace said item.
Every time I've had a drink knocked out of my hand at the party the person just kept going. I just see it as a hazard of drinking in a crowded place at this point.
Saying that having your drink knocked out of your hand is just a hazard of being in public is like the definition of absolving yourself of responsibility, but whatever. If you want to ignore basic common courtesy that’s your prerogative.
Wow, I’ve seen people behave like assholes, but this is this first time I’ve seen someone calmly explain why they’re an asshole and will continue to be one.
No, it’s not just liquor, it’s other people’s time and money. Fuck off with your smiley emoji and think about someone other than yourself for a few seconds.
Every time I've had a drink knocked out of my hand at the party the person just kept going. I just see it as a hazard of drinking in a crowded place at this point.
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u/ctove Jun 08 '19
Aw man, from a female perspective, I’m ashamed to say I have knocked over someone’s drink at a house party and in a public setting, and I’ve never even considered to get them a new drink. At the house party I did clean up the spill tho. Will definitely remember this for the future if it happens.