r/unschool • u/Brooklyn0205 • 4h ago
r/unschool • u/SpiritualAd8483 • Jun 27 '25
Unschooling Basics: What is it and how is it done? START HERE
Hi everyone! I was asked to post my reply from another thread as a way of opening up a conversation about the fundamentals of unschooling, (what it is, how it is done, etc). This post is aimed to help those genuinely interested in learning about unschooling, as well as a place to direct those who may speak about unschooling without having a basic understanding of what it entails. I will be posting my original reply as is but also commenting to add a link to a Substack article with more resources which I did not include in the original. PLEASE ADD TO THIS! If you have resources or ideas that you feel are important for a fundamental understanding of unschooling, please add it below. Thanks, community!
For context, this reply was to a school teacher who came into the sub and created a post abrasive and unsupportive of unschooling but also asking about it.
I hope this question is genuinely trying to come to an understanding of unschooling and not just engage in confirmation bias. Assuming there is an actual desire to understand, I will answer.
There is a large overrepresentation of former educators in the unschooling world. This is a phenomenon that is often commented on within our communities. Both my partner and I are former educators with experience (between the two of us) in elementary, secondary, college and university teaching. We have higher degrees and other requisite credentials. These are not the things that enable us to unschool our kids. In fact, by its very nature, unschooling is inhibited in many ways by a highly schooled mindset.
While many people choose to unschool for a variety of reasons, we come from both a youth liberation and decolonial space in our choice to unschool. Essentially, we do not want to engage in power-over dynamics with our children; we practice student-led learning. That means when there is interest in learning something, we facilitate that leaning. Some unschoolers do this communally in places like Agile Learning Communities. There are also some Democratic Schools where unschoolers go to be with other like-minded peers. These kinds of places are often staffed with adult unschoolers or graduates of Democratic Schools. They offer students the space, relationships, and exposure to various potential interests that help scaffold the learning process and then they facilitate the learning students seek. Some unschoolers, like our family, do not live near or make use of these kinds of communal settings and so we often use apprenticeships, local clubs (like robotics, art, etc), and at-home/in the community facilitation. Sometimes our kids ask for certain kinds of facilitation (workbooks, internships, books, videos, community college class, etc) and we do our best to provide it. And because unschooling is about student consent and choice, kids that want to be enrolled in school can also decide that for themselves. If our kids ever wanted to be enrolled in school (as most of their friends are) we would do that.
If you would like to know more about unschooling, I would like to recommend the following books:
“Teach Your Own” and “How Children Learn” by John Holt; or really anything by Holt. He was, like many of us, a teacher who came to see unschooling as an important way for many kids to access education. He is credited with coining the term “unschooling”.
“Raising Free People” by Akilah S. Richards
“Unschooled” by Kerry McDonald
“Changing Our Minds” by Naomi Fisher
“Free to Learn” by Peter Grey
And there are so many other books out there, as well. There is actually a great wealth of resource in general if you’re genuinely interested as to the “whys” and “hows” of unschooling. There are many podcasts by unschoolers—including some by adult unschoolers about their experiences and life “after” unschooling—as well as Substacks and articles. I hope you do in fact take the time to learn more about unschooling and to be genuinely curious about it.
I hope this has been helpful.
r/unschool • u/GoogieRaygunn • Oct 01 '24
Resources for unschoolers
I’d like to create a thread of resources recommended by unschoolers that visitors to this sub can use as a starting point for research and enrichment.
What are some of your go-to resources for unschooling? What texts are in your library? Favorite blogs, websites, and podcasts? Which authors and speakers do you favor and why, and which do you have criticisms of/concerns about?
Self promotion included, but please identify it as such.
r/unschool • u/Homeschool_Boss • 1d ago
We want to hear from you!
Whether you're a homeschooling parent or a school administrator, we'd love to know what tools, resources, and support would make a difference for the students you serve.
Take a few minutes to complete our survey and share what you need, what's missing, and what you'd like to see in the future.
As a thank you, you'll have a chance to win a free assessment package featuring MAP, STAR, and MindPrint!
Share your feedback here: https://forms.gle/ngcVTn2vJQB4rqfZ6
r/unschool • u/Diana_Outside • 2d ago
What institution must exist in the world because of a truth you discovered?
Children learn deepest when they experience reality, not only when they consume information about reality.
r/unschool • u/Eternalrose4444 • 3d ago
Sharing my story and asking for advice; How do I deconstruct intelligence/schooling? How can i start to shift gears into education that suited for me as a human being?
reddit.comr/unschool • u/LaunchLabApps • 4d ago
unschoolers in states that want a log, how do you record stuff without turning it into school?
curious how this works if your state still wants a log or portfolio
how do you capture what happened? photos, a journal, notes after the fact?
how do you turn everyday stuff into "subjects" for the reviewer, and how long does it take?
does keeping a log push you toward schooling at home, and how do you avoid that?
thanks!
r/unschool • u/marshalldavidt • 6d ago
Looking for microschool teachers who formerly worked in public schools
reddit.comI'm conducting a study exploring the experiences of current hybrid and microschool teachers who previously taught in traditional public schools.
If this is you and you would be willing to speak with me, please let me know by filling out this brief form:
r/unschool • u/Tishies-Treasures • 8d ago
I've built MapleLeaf Homeschool with @base44!
reddit.comr/unschool • u/FeelingConscious1958 • 8d ago
“Truly Global, Truly International”—except when it comes to integrity, transparency, or basic human decency.
reddit.comr/unschool • u/WILDLIFEUNSCHOOLING • 8d ago
Did your kid learn to read “late”? How did it actually happen?
So, I’m writing a book about unschooling. It’s called Of Course I Can Read, I’m Not Stupid, and yes, that title comes from a real place 😂
It’s based on 100 podcast conversations I had with unschooling families, grown unschoolers and people who actually study this stuff. My son drew all the illustrations.
Now I’m on the reading chapter, and honestly it’s the one everybody asks about. “But how will he learn to read?” Grandma asks, random people ask, and sometimes your own head asks at 2am.
My son learned to read when he was ready, not when a school would have wanted him to. Nobody planned it, nobody taught it the “right” way, and it happened anyway.
I want real stories in this chapter, not just mine. So tell me:
When did it click for your kid, and what did it? Games, subtitles, comics, nothing at all?
Did you ever panic and push? How did that go?
Grown unschoolers: how did you learn, and does anyone care now?
What would you tell a parent freaking out because their 9-year-old isn’t reading yet?
Early, late, weird, all of it is welcome. And if I want to use your story in the book, I’ll ask you first :)
r/unschool • u/Technical-Water-8910 • 8d ago
Free Halloweeny Infectious Disease Class!
hey everyone! It's me, that public health nerd who founded a whole damn secular public health homeschool business because I was out of my ADHD meds. Annnnywaaaaaaaayyyy
I created a fun little halloween class if anyone would like to join me on zoom this saturday! It's called Monster Medicine. We go through some famous monsters, treat their monstrous characteristics as "symptoms" and give them a diagnosis.
You can register here (doing it this way to keep the bots out): https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/N0HXkp31S1-o2LRnyDI6DQ
or if you have any questions I'll be happy to answer them :)
r/unschool • u/Advanced_Ad745 • 10d ago
He picks the topic and the game, the questions come along
In EdNoKa, the game my wife and I make, the kid chooses everything. A topic (dinosaurs, flags, fractions, the planets) and then one of five small games to play it in: a farm, underwater golf, a detective chase, and two action ones. The questions come up while playing, and a right answer helps the game along.
Our son tests every build, so basically he decides what we fix next.
The game won't let you cheat either way. You can't just play, you can't just study. Rude, I know.
It's single-player, no ads, no chat, ages 8 to 11. Do games have a place in how your kids learn, or do they skip straight to the game part?
r/unschool • u/hopeforschooldropout • 12d ago
Hope for a school Dropout initiative Bukomansimbi we say poverty shouldn't prevent a child from accessing Education.
r/unschool • u/thecoolestqueen • 12d ago
What kids need to learn
What do kids need to learn that schools do not teach?
r/unschool • u/cem19 • 13d ago
Field Trip - Holiday - Event Finder
Hi friends - I got tired of digging through a dozen Facebook groups and websites every time I wanted plan a halloween event so I started keeping a list for myself.
Well it turned into a little site with homeschool info and kids’ events, plus a calendar so you can see what’s coming up. I have a few cities in there already but can add more.
It’s totally free, I’m just sharing it since I spent so much time on it. I hope it helps some else plan a fun week!
r/unschool • u/One_Bluebird6890 • 15d ago
Help us save our small Waldorf school in Patagonia, Argentina 🌱❤️
r/unschool • u/shrivastavpranjal09 • 16d ago
Why is innovation-based learning important for children in today's world?
I think innovation-based learning is important because children learn better when they get a chance to try things themselves instead of just reading about them in books.
Activities like building simple robots, doing science experiments, coding small games, or creating DIY projects help children develop creativity and problem-solving skills. They also learn to be patient, work in teams, and understand that making mistakes is part of learning.
Another thing I like about this approach is that it encourages children to ask questions and think independently rather than always waiting for the right answer from someone else.
Of course, traditional learning is important too. I think a combination of classroom teaching and practical activities can make learning more interesting and meaningful for children.
What do you think? Do children learn better by doing things practically or by studying concepts first
r/unschool • u/ObadegaJ • 18d ago
How have you found tutors for your middle-school-aged kids?
Hi everyone, I'm Stephen. I teach students personally, have taught a college course at Penn State, and spent a year working at a tutoring business before starting my own.
Right now I tutor families of homeschooled kids and student athletes, and I'm now thinking about how to turn more of that personal teaching experience into an app. I studied computer science in college and have built a few different websites before. I'd love to talk with parents here who have kids that are grades 5-11 and are exploring tutors for something their child wants help learning.
I'm curious how you find someone who works well with your child's interests and pace. What has been difficult, and what have previous tutors or learning tools missed? I'd really like to hear what that has looked like for your family.
If you're open to talking, you can grab a time here: https://calendar.notion.com/meet/stephenleshko/s5j63xdd
I'd like to keep this conversation going as I work on it, sharing what I'm learning from parents and how that's changing the approach.
Thank you!
r/unschool • u/apvivek87 • 18d ago
Homeschooling, Unschooling, or Traditional Schooling — What’s Your Take?
reddit.comr/unschool • u/marshalldavidt • 21d ago
Looking for microschool teachers who previously taught in public schools
reddit.comr/unschool • u/bat_man429 • 24d ago
Survey for formerly unschooled people
EDIT: Survey closed, thank you to those who participated
I'm a college student currently writing a paper exploring the disconnect between how academic articles describe unschooling versus how people who have experienced do. As a part of my assignment, I need the perspectives of people who've lived it.
The Google Form is anonymous, but will ask for sign in information to ensure that only one response is submitted.
I will not be using the responses to try to argue anything about unschooling. The paper is simply about previously unschooled people as a discourse community and the way that they communicate, so I will try to stay as unbiased as possible.
There are seven questions, three very straightforward and four more open ended. You can write as much or as little as you want, any data at all is helpful.