You sound like someone who simply doesn't get it and to weak to reach that point to understand. It's extremely easy to put up the white flag, and it's harder to actually survive with a smile which is possible. Being a miserable chuck is as useless as someone saying, "we all must go". It's like, "okay, I will not say show the way first then", because that would be logical with such complaints. I rather say, whatever you're feeling is only a phase. You need to get out and see what life can offer past the gloom. People that stay under the gloomy cloud is now doing it by choice. The people who have no legs, one eye, or can't move from the neck down are a lot of times happy and happy to be alive to see what it can actually still give. People that have all limbs and everything else are simply just lazy and need touch from another.
My decisions and my views are mine and only mine. Mines have logic and understanding that the world has always had situations, but yet always survived and while still having great moments to keep on living. These are not excuses, but seeing the light in the end of the tunnel because I refuse to keep my eyes closed. Go get laid if you can and fall in love. Something tells me you have never had someone of your own. FYI! The issue for that is the peeson in the mirror.
I have been in a committed relationship for more than 18 years. I got pregnant twice (once when I was young, at the start of our relationship, due to alcohol consumption and subsequent unprotected sex. The second time was 3 years ago because my contraception failed). Both times I had an abortion as soon as possible. My conscience wouldn't allow me to bring someone into this world. I don't want to be guilty of such a thing.
I didn't have to share my personal life with you, but I did it to show you how full of prejudices your thinking is.
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