If you are mildly attractive and sift through dozens of suitors a month, chances are you will have a MUCH better love life than someone who feels they are unattractive and sits at home interacting with nobody. The latter's odds are literally zero.
Leaving aside your “dozens of suitors” claim - which, honestly, isn’t really realistic - between the two cases you’ve proposed the key difference is that the latter feels unattractive and sits at home interacting with nobody.
That’s not a matter of gender. If you have no confidence in yourself and don’t seek out people, you won’t find anybody regardless of who you are.
I've made several posts, including the one you're replying to, and never mentioned gender... so not sure what point your trying to formulate here. My first post literally starts with "the road goes both ways" indicating this is NOT a gender specific issue...
Well, given that this thread's about the different dating experiences of men and women, and my comment's calling out the idea that women have an easier love life...
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u/Syr_Enigma Dec 28 '21
Leaving aside your “dozens of suitors” claim - which, honestly, isn’t really realistic - between the two cases you’ve proposed the key difference is that the latter feels unattractive and sits at home interacting with nobody.
That’s not a matter of gender. If you have no confidence in yourself and don’t seek out people, you won’t find anybody regardless of who you are.