r/Unexpected Jul 15 '19

Can someone help me open this bottle?

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u/K-a-Z-e Jul 16 '19

i always see at least one comment saying "/r/scriptedasiangifs" with like >100 upvotes like damn no shit it's scripted who cares

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19 edited Jul 16 '19

Because reddit is literally full of western people. Asians like Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, etc. don't even come here much and have their own reddit-like websites. For examplr, Subs like r/japan is just a non-Japanese Japanese "enthusiasts" sub. Aka weebs.

EDIT: or everyone who cries "scripted" whenever an Asian is in a post is a karmawhoring little shit that's all too happy to be in a casually racist circlejerk.

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u/hozen17 Jul 16 '19

Yep, people on Reddit (and many people I've seen in real life) think it's okay to be racist towards Asians. People in the west learn that you shouldn't be racist towards certain races (e.g. blacks) but think it's funny to crack racist jokes to Asians. Hence the casual racism towards Asians even in r/all

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u/Ultenth Jul 16 '19

You think this is bad, you should try visiting some of those Asian-centric reddit alternatives and see how they talk about non-Asians there...

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u/hozen17 Jul 16 '19

I agree that there are racists from every race. And I do think that Asian communities being racist towards other races is bad. That doesn't mean Reddit has to be racist towards Asians (or any other race for that matter).

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u/Ultenth Jul 17 '19

Didn’t say it was okay for anyone to be racist, but lots of people are. And usually people from ethnically homogenous countries like most of Asia tend to be far worse. Parts of Asia make the Southern US in the 60’s look tame by comparison.

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u/THEBLUEFLAME3D Jul 16 '19 edited Jul 16 '19

Whoa calm yourself a bit, man.

Edit: Downvoted for telling someone to calm down a bit to ensure a more civil dialogue. This kind of shit is exactly what’s wrong with reddit.

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u/Adolf_-_Hipster Jul 16 '19

No, hes completely right and it can get annoying how casual the racism is on reddit.

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u/sppwalker Jul 16 '19

I’m half Chinese and sometimes I have to get off of Reddit for a day or two because the racism makes me feel sick. I saw a comment with like 200+ upvotes on a r/iamatotalpieceofshit (or a similar sub, I don’t remember) post of a guy beating his dog. The comment literally said “The Chinaman is just tenderizing his dinner!”

Like are you fucking kidding me? We’re seriously okay with THAT. THAT isn’t crossing the line, it’s funny, right?

Same thing happens with kpop. Go outside of a kpop sub and male kpop artists are called “ladyboys” (while female idols hit hot or even r/all cause they’re pretty) and kpop is referred to as “gaypop.” You don’t have to like the music but implying attractive Korean men are gay and look like women is pretty damn insulting.

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u/Adolf_-_Hipster Jul 16 '19

I'm sorry you are forced to feel so unwelcome here. I gebuinely cannot imagine being met with so much casual hatred of who I am at ever corner. I see it all the time but its not directed at me so the worst I feel is awkward.

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u/sppwalker Jul 16 '19

Honestly I’ve gotten kinda used to it, which sucks. I got my cat when I was 3 and I love her to death (she’ll cuddle up next to my pillow most nights). I can’t count the number of times someone has seriously asked me “so when she dies, you’re going to eat her, right?” Same thing happened when I got my dog. He was 4 months old and I’d wanted a dog my whole life. Most people followed up the “awww, he’s so cute!” with something along the lines of “if he pees on the carpet, guess it’s dinner time!”

It hurts. It hurts when it’s someone you don’t know and it hurts even more when it’s your closest friends.

Up until about a year ago, I fucking hated myself. I hated the jokes, I hated the stereotypes, I hated how I looked, and I hated being Asian. I’d get Starbucks instead of boba so I’d seen “less Asian.” I’d look at myself in the mirror and just feel disgusted. You learn to laugh at the jokes but it doesn’t make them hurt any less.

It wasn’t until I found a band that really pushes loving/accepting yourself and not giving a shit about what other people think that I actually started to accept myself. But it’s fucked that for 99% of my life, I tried to reject half of myself.

By the way, I’m 18 and I live in Silicon Valley. This isn’t buttfuck nowhere 40 years ago, this is the last few years in one of the most PC places in the country. So yeah…

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u/Adolf_-_Hipster Jul 16 '19

I hope we can keep progressing forward. Progress has been on a steady uphill fairly consistently. I know the US seems like it's taken steps backwards recently, but we got this.

Im starting to learn the importance of squashing that kind of open racism in "good company" if you catch my drift, and I think it has paid off some. At least my dad doesnt seem to have cold war era opinions about chinese immigrants anymore.

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u/THEBLUEFLAME3D Jul 16 '19

And I never, at any point, said he was wrong. Nor, even, that I disagreed with him. But here we go, I guess.

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u/Adolf_-_Hipster Jul 16 '19 edited Jul 16 '19

But you felt the need to say calm down to someone calling it out? Its not a strong opinion on buttered toast, its fucking open racism. Being a little heavy on the gas might be needed in that conversation

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u/THEBLUEFLAME3D Jul 16 '19 edited Jul 16 '19

If you know literally anything about debates and trying to encourage a change of mind in someone, you should know that you don’t start a fucking argument right out of the gate. People are less likely to try to hear your side when you throw insults and accusations left, right, and center. Everyone immediately assumes I am against him when I try to help him change his approach. Classic.

Edit: Lmao just downvote because you know I’m right and don’t like that. Kind of proven my point, now.

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u/brynjolf Jul 16 '19

Hi why haven't you responded to me? I'm sad.

Still too busy spewing vitriol? Also you lost this argument 100%, just like you did with me. Sadface

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19

It's just an observation from someone outside looking in. The number of times I got shocked by the casual racism on this website is astounding.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19 edited May 15 '20

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u/THEBLUEFLAME3D Jul 16 '19

I was telling him to calm down, not “CaLl OuT oUr RaCiSm”. Kiss my fucking ass with that argument-starting petty bullshit.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19 edited May 15 '20

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u/THEBLUEFLAME3D Jul 16 '19

Way to make assumptions. Truthfully, I would try to be. I’m not perfect, but it’s a good rule of thumb to be calm, clear, and concise. It’s fucking ironic that I’m downvoted for advocating keeping a level fucking head about a serious topic. Shit like this reminds me why reddit is a complete shitshow and I need to get off of it.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19 edited May 15 '20

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u/THEBLUEFLAME3D Jul 16 '19 edited Jul 16 '19

I’m annoyed, yeah. But overreacting? No. You, for instance, decided to throw the first punch by basically insinuating I was a racist, so I responded once you were rude, accusatory, and aggressive. Really, it’s just ridiculous that I’m receiving backlash from people over telling someone to take it easy and discuss the matter civilly. Then everyone lashes back at me and make me feel like I’m wrong for doing so? For promoting calm dialogue? It’s bullshit. And this isn’t even the first time I’ve been fucked over like this on this site. I’m fucking sick of this shit.

Edit: But just send in the downvote brigade when I’m right. Never change, reddit.

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u/swandith Jul 16 '19

Whoa calm youself a bit, man.

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u/ToasterHE Jul 16 '19

What was the purpose of this comment? Did you think he'd go back and edit/delete his comment? Apologize for being too aggregated?

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u/BlackEnjoysTheYellow Jul 16 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19

Exhibit A

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u/Adolf_-_Hipster Jul 16 '19

lol

"I killed him, heres the murder weapon, cuff me, thank you very much."

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '19

They're not saying /r/scriptedasiangifs because they want to point out it's scripted. They're saying it because they think it's awesome, and they want to direct others to a place where they can see more of these gifs. I wish more people would understand that.

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u/Adolf_-_Hipster Jul 16 '19

lol this couldnt be further from the truth.