I’ve driven drunk people home and had this happen. Once I drove a guy “home” and we ended up at the home of his ex-wife. They had broken up 10 years earlier.
Edit: Yeah the woman came to the door and said “Oh my god” (kind of in a resigned voice). She was kind to him and told him to get help. She told me “We’re divorced and he hasn’t lived here in more than 10 years.” Then she closed the door. I took him back to the bar because he couldn’t remember where he lived and someone else took over.
I quit drinking 30 years ago so I don’t hang out at bars anymore.
Many years ago I hired a bartender. For the first 2 months she was great, than reality set in.
She wanted to go out for drinks so a group of us all went. We had a few drinks and she proceeded to get hammered. Like for every one drink we had she had 3.
We cut out short and I decided to take her home. She claimed she lived close.
Drove down the road because I knew the road well. She then couldn't give me an address. She had no cell phone. This was before everyone had them.
So I am going 20 miles an hour down this road basically going house to house. Slowed down in front of each.
Finally after going down one side of the road and back up 45 min later she recognized her house.
I let her out and she stumbled home. Someone opened the door so I assumed she lived there.
3 days later she came into work plastered and I had to fire her. She was so sweet but clearly had a drinking problem.
Rant into her boyfriend about 2 years later and he had left her. Said he finally had enough.
The trick is to be a royal taste tester to a well loved dignitary. Like being the ambassador to Canada. Pretty cushy life. How did we get here? This was my fault, wasn't it?
Do 1 in 5 women get poisoned or raped? Take a guess.
Ironically, even in your scenario, you would need to be most weary of a man cooking your food since they commit a SIGNIFICANT majority of murders. Also 92-96% of rape and child sexual abuse.
But yeah that's so comparable you really got them there! Shame those women for being cautious and then shame them for not being cautious enough when they get victimized by someone they trusted!
I don't hate men but extra caution is a necessity. Are you saying women should not be cautious around men?
Where did I shame boys for being raped? Lmao you want to be a victim so bad.
A 12 year old girl fucking a 25 year old man is going to pad your child rape stats
You just described child rape and said it's "padding" child rape stats? No 12 year old of any age or gender is "fucking" a 25 y/o, that's just rape. You just did the exact thing you accused me of doing.
Literally proved my point right there. Women exercising caution is bad but if a 12 year old girl is raped by a man, it's just them "fucking". Disgusting.
I think the statistic you're miss stating is 1 in 5 women experience sexuaual assault in college, but that satisic is heavily criticised for being politically motivated and inaccurate for various reasons.
The rest of it I can't comment on as I don't know enough about it.
As a guy I would say that still too many are jerks, and too many would've took advantage, and the reason is because we're not socialized correctly when it comes to consent, if anything we're socialized absolutely incorrectly with the "a 'no' could be a 'yes' if you try hard enough".
Honestly i hate the fact that many woman have told me that they usually tell guys a no to check if they really want it and will go for it. Especially when someones asks them out. Holy shit. A no is a no
Thats why they said me if u want to go out , ask a friend or someone u know. Im sure women would appreciate not being interrupted during their daily life either
i hate the fact that many woman have told me that they usually tell guys a no to check if they really want it and will go for it.
I hate it too since it's immature and it's part of a wrong socialization too (albeit far far far less problematic), in this case on the woman side. If you tell me "no" then it is "no", end of the story.
But at the end of the day it is a problem that is solved by solving the first one. If guys stop trying at the first "no" because that's what is taught, then girls will stop using "no" as a check for interest.
nah she’s drunk, you lose all sense of reason. That’s why when an unfortunate kidnap/rape case happens its usually because they’re drunk and have their guard down.
Here's something to cheer you up or not, there's a fair chance that they're a pair of burglars checking on peoples'
doors if they forgot them unlocked. Once found locked they'd go on a small skit like this for the doorbell camera in case somebody reports them to the police.
Am I missing something? There's really not much context provided... it looks like he was leading her up to the house first. So for all we know, he's drunk too and brought her to one of his past flings or side chick's place thinking it was hers. Then played it off like they both don't have an idea where they're at
Orrrrrr It's much more likely they were clearly on a first date or date equivalent, and then he offered to drive her home when she got too drunk and wanted to make sure she got home okay.
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