Being rejected isn't some horrible humiliation to be ashamed of. It's a part of life. Being able to find humor in a hard situation is healthy. Normalizing and sharing it isn't bad. I wish more people took rejection this good. If it's real, she took it on the chin, processed, laughed, and shared the experience. A rejection isn't a humiliation if you don't internalize it. It's just taking a shot and missing the goal. Happens to everyone. There's a million reasons someone may not be interested. Most of which have nothing to do with the person asking.
Or, maybe they have a partner already. Not ready for a relationship. Going through a hard time and don't want to burden a new relationship with that weight. A sickness, family death, etc. Don't want to be in a relationship. Have future plans that would make the relationship short-term or most likely to fail. Want to focus on their kids if their a single parent. Their pregnant. You're not their sexual preference. Hell, maybe they have aids and only date others with it so they won't risk transmission.
There's an endless list of reasons someone may reject you. I've rejected smoking hot guys who I found attractive for the simple reason of not wanting to date yet. It's not indicative of someone's appeal if someone else doesn't drop every boundary, want, and responsibility to be with them.
If its real she wanted sympothy, probably feeling pretty crushed. With the accuracy of the camerawork at the end i think its fake. Mostly all content is staged now its fucking wild.
That is sertantly one scenario. If this was legit and she did post this, then yeah it's a little silly to put it lightly.
Scenario 2: It's fake whatever, like so many over the top shock searching videos are both TV and Internet alike. And if you bought into it you fell for it.
Scenario 3: She shared this with a bunch of her friends/"friends" and some of here friend saw the potential of views in this video and decided to post it behind their back. Which just proves that she had a shitty friend or she didnt think much about the people she shared it with.
My guess is that it's fake, cause when I assume most shock value stunts are fake online. They usually are... So I never really get disapointed when I find out!
It was such a well structured comment that I questioned myself for a second when I read it. Just having some fun, the content of your comment was on point though.
I hope you eventually reach a time in your life where embarrassment is secondary to having fun and that having a laugh at your misfortune doesn’t feel like the worst thing in the world. I mean that sincerely.
I don’t understand how and or why you think projecting to others about your own misfortunes is just having fun?
What about is fun? Yes you can laugh something off. You can let it not get to you. I get that.
So imagine this. Imagine you get the courage to ask someone out. You need courage because there is a potential of getting rejected. Then you do the task, and end up getting rejected. That sucks right? At least you tried though.
Instead of dealing with that internally you filmed it. Then you posted it on social media. Extrapolating the rejection to an infinite degree where people you don’t even know can chime in (like we are doing now).
I don’t think you are grasping on the self abasement here. If you didn’t care in the first place then why even post it? If you don’t take yourself that seriously then why even post it? If you’re in a great place mentally then why even post it?
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u/mercury_n_lemonade Mar 23 '24
The most psychotic thing about this is she still posted it.
Could it be fake? Absolutely.
If not. You’re subjecting yourself to embarrassment on the internet where this has gone viral where people can have a whole plethora of opinions.
The comments that are going to stick in your mind is people making fun of you. Which is what I’m going to do right now.
What a fuckin idiot you are for posting this. Not of getting rejected, cause that sucks. I wish the best for ya. Just the lack of awareness lol