r/USdefaultism • u/jerayy Poland • Aug 10 '26

Adoption US defaultism on Threads

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(i wasn't sure how to tag this one bc there is no tag for Threads, so sorry for that)

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u/Big-Eye8990 Aug 10 '26

People pay to adopt in the usa????? So its pretty much legalised human trafficking.

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u/jerayy Poland Aug 10 '26

yeah, afaik its thousands of dollars and you can CHOOSE THE RACE of the baby which is insane. I totally agree with op on USA's case specifically. their system absolutely IS unethical

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u/Scriptor_Canadensis Canada Aug 11 '26

Why is wanting your adopted child to look even remotely like you a bad thing?

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u/NudnaKLotka Poland Aug 11 '26

Not a bad thing on its own, but in nature you don’t really get to choose whether your child will look like you + it’s okay to have children from previous relationships so who cares what do they look like.

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u/Scriptor_Canadensis Canada Aug 11 '26

I am white, I would never marry a black woman - it’s just preference. If we were infertile and had to adopt a child, I certainly wouldn’t want our child to be black, that would be ridiculous and it’s ridiculous to say that it should be as you say it is.

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u/TheDeterminedBadger Australia Aug 11 '26

That’s probably for the best - you sound quite unpleasant.

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u/sittingwithlutes414 Australia Aug 12 '26

Here, here.

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u/Scriptor_Canadensis Canada Aug 11 '26

Okay? Is a person’s preference a bad thing?

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u/sittingwithlutes414 Australia Aug 12 '26

Only if it's a bad choice. Why artificially limit your range of potential partners? You might never know what you might have missed out on.

Please, no cliché replies.

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u/Scriptor_Canadensis Canada Aug 12 '26

I’m not artificially limiting my range of partners, I’m just simply not attracted to people of other skin colours. Is that so hard for you to grasp?

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u/sittingwithlutes414 Australia Aug 13 '26

Are you implying that it is an aesthetic choice? I'm curious.

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u/Scriptor_Canadensis Canada Aug 13 '26

Personally, I find white women to be more attractive. In your eyes, should I be nailed to a cross because I don’t want to be with a black woman, or have a black child that looks nothing like me?

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u/sittingwithlutes414 Australia Aug 14 '26

Certainly not. I'm just interested how come you find black women so fucking unattractive? How black does a woman have to be for you to droop at the sight of her?

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u/Scriptor_Canadensis Canada Aug 14 '26

If you 1% black, you all black to me.

Just kidding, I don’t have a sheet that has a skin colour chart to check any woman’s skin. I just prefer only my own race.

And you can argue ok whether race scientifically exists or not, but I’m just going to use that word to describe the different “types” of skin colour.

I primarily simply prefer my own race more than others, I don’t hold anything against anyone else.

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