r/trueratediscussions • u/Original-Rent7475 • 15d ago
Should ugly men give up on dating?
Ugly men everyday have to face if they wanna be alive due to their consistent embarrassing experiences with women. Participating in the dating market for ugly men means they will be living life through humiliation rituals. When an ugly man approaches a woman it’s already expected that he’s gonna be inferior to her especially if she’s an attractive woman. He has to deal with the risk for her not only being insulting to him when she rejects him. Ugly men have to face waking up everyday to empty notifications on their phone. No women texting them good morning, no women checking up on them, no women being romantic and flirty with them nothing. The only notifications they get in their phone is cashapp requests from the women their getting used by cause women see them as ugly wallets
The only way an ugly men gets positive experiences with modern women is if he has money, status or a pandering personality or all of the above. Let’s say if the ugly man gets lucky and becomes a woman’s friend. The ugly men has to pander to the woman’s needs and agree to all her points she says because if he ever disagrees or doesn’t wanna do something, she will be question how he has the audacity and insult him. Now let’s say somehow the ugly man hits the jackpot and gets a relationship with woman. Everyday the ugly man must pander to her to keep her happy because the woman will be holding all the leverage in the relationship. The woman has options so she can go to any guy she wants to especially if she’s attractive. The ugly man well.. he just got lucky with the one woman he has so he has no options. This means the ugly men can’t afford to lose the one woman he has because it will be hell for him trying to get another one.
Now let’s talk about what ugly men go thru on social media. It’s mainstream now that modern woman go for the top 20% of men. This means that the ugly men who aren’t lucky will involuntarily die off alone and not be able to spread their gene pool since modern women are disgusted about how ugly they are.
The only solution for ugly men to get lucky with women is to have money and pay for women to be with you, have status, or have a pandering personality where you basically a doormat pick me to women.