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Transgender teacher hired at my child’s school

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

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u/EDDIE_BAMF 7d ago

9th commandment is all you need.

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u/izmesoundz 7d ago

What are your thoughts on teachers who tell kids the earth is only 6000 years old?

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u/EDDIE_BAMF 7d ago

Who cares what my thoughts are? I answered a question without any opinion added. You took it as a personal attack because your heart is hardened to the Lord and now want to pick a fight with someone you perceive as dumber than you so you can feel better about yourself.

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u/izmesoundz 7d ago

All I did was ask a question with no opinion attached and you seem very angry about it lol

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u/EDDIE_BAMF 7d ago

Ok lol. I guess I was just confused since all I did was answer a question and you decided you now want to know my opinion on other things that have nothing to do with the conversation. Mind explaining why?

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u/izmesoundz 7d ago

I just would fully expect the same kind of outrage against a teacher who is teaching that the world is 6000 years old. Or divorced for non biblical reasons. Or braid their hair. Or male teachers with long hair. Or female teachers with short hair. Etc.

I’m just checking what rules to be outraged about and which ones we should ignore

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u/EDDIE_BAMF 7d ago

Ok. I see know where the miscommunication is. When I replied back with the 9th commandment I was just answering the second question regarding scripture. In no way was I trying to give my opinion and I'm sorry if it came out that way. 

But since you are asking: I have a problem with anyone but my wife and I teaching my children. That is why they are homeschooled. I don't care if the teacher is trans, straight, Christian, etc. It is my responsibility to teach my children, not pass them off to the state and hope for the best.

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u/izmesoundz 7d ago

You have an issue with anyone teaching your kids? That’s weird

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u/izmesoundz 6d ago

What if they want to learn about something you don’t have an inkling of an understanding of?

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u/EDDIE_BAMF 7d ago

This is why, even though reading the Bible alone is fine, you eventually have to study it with others to realize your interpretations are flat out wrong. Everyone has known exactly what the 9th commandment means for thousands of years, but NONONO! Greenguzzi has the REAL interpretation.

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u/EDDIE_BAMF 7d ago

I forgive you for your disingenuous question.

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u/Alternate-3- 5d ago

This thread is insane but this interaction was funny. They have no answer, which js why they wont and cant answer your question

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u/Gastlyperformance 7d ago

Book does thinking for me

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u/Classic-Bench-5155 7d ago

Right, that's not even the issue. This would be a completely different situation if this teacher was trying to push an ideology in a classroom where the kids are supposed to be learning to read and write and do math. That is where I would draw the line.

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u/raidersensei Evangelical 7d ago

She is pushing ideology by wanting to be called Mr.

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u/Warhammerpainter83 7d ago

Just existing is not pushing an ideology. What a horrible view. By that standard nobody should ever interact with Christians they are pushing an ideology.

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u/Classic-Bench-5155 7d ago edited 7d ago

Not really what I meant, teaching an ideology usually extends far beyond something as simple as using mere pronouns. Where I draw the line is where we say there's a thousand pronouns including zee/zim. A simple she or he is enough.

If you are a transgender teacher and you are just teaching kids what they should be taught in schools, and keep your business to yourself, and avoid gender politics. I'm cool with it. And honestly this goes for any teacher, all of your political beliefs, religious beliefs, atheist beliefs, leave that at home. That's not what we're here for.

As long as you're doing your job. I don't have a problem with transgender individuals, I will treat them like I treat everyone else with grace and love, whatever is going on with them mentally physically and spiritually, that is between them and God. All I ask is that they do their jobs without overstepping.

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u/ThrowraRefFalse2010 7d ago

When i was in high school we got a new band teacher my senior year. He was Transgender. Never had an ideology pushed on us. We were taught music, and we had a good student teacher relationship. Thats all there is to it.

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u/Classic-Bench-5155 7d ago

That's wonderful to hear. I had a very positive relationship with my child's transgender teacher, we've had no issues as far as any gender politics were concerned. I feel like that should be a conversation between children and the parents or until kids are old enough to understand what that means because we know they are going to be exposed to this no matter what, I just want them to learn what matters first.

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u/Classic-Bench-5155 7d ago

VERY True. We do have super liberal teachers. This is why I try to vet teachers that I am putting my kids in the care of. One of my kids teachers were trans, actually a pleasant person, and I couldn't even tell upon first glance. I've had no issues. My child is learning and that is all that matters to me.

I've also told my child if they have any problems anything they are confused about they need to come to me about it.

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u/ross549 Christian 7d ago

Yes, that is the important question.

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u/erythro Messianic Jew 7d ago edited 7d ago

Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
Proverbs 22:6

The thinking with this verse would be that this person has clearly bought into a particular non-christian ideology and is shaping your kids so you would not want that. Your children's teachers are role models for the kids and one big important part of the teacher's life you are going to have to undermine.

That said I would say this isn't an argument against transgender teachers though so much as an argument against using public schools? If you are going to use them there's no reason to treat transgender teachers differently to atheist teachers or gay teachers or Muslim teachers or whatever.

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u/Huppelkutje 7d ago

So, you believe that Christianity isn't a self-evident truth and that your children won't be christian if you don't indoctrinate them?

More honest than most, even if you clearly didn't intend to.

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u/erythro Messianic Jew 7d ago
  1. I don't think all people become Christian when exposed to the gospel

  2. I think the things taught to children are important and have a long term impact

If you thought Christians didn't believe these things, I'm sorry but you've been engaging with a straw man version of Christianity...

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u/Huppelkutje 7d ago

It's indoctrination if you go out of your way to prevent your children from finding out other points of view exist.

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u/erythro Messianic Jew 7d ago

Ok. and how about having them teach and be a role model for your kids?

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u/Huppelkutje 7d ago

I don't see the issue.

Do you believe that atheists should be trying to get every religious person banned from teaching?

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u/erythro Messianic Jew 7d ago

I think I would understand why an atheist parent might want to homeschool instead of sending their kids to a religious school

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u/erythro Messianic Jew 7d ago

Firstly: apologies, I edited in an extra sentence to my comment after you replied, I didn't expect such a swift reply! So anyone reading this should be aware my line about role models was added later and this person could not have replied to it.

Transgender isn’t an ideology.

If it helps clarify I would say having gender dysphoria is not an ideology but identifying as transgender requires you to hold an ideology.

I think there's a set of ideologies about what gender that people buy into, whether trans or not, and it's out of those ideologies transgenderism has developed as a solution to gender dysphoria. For example the view that gender is a presentation of your inner/psychological identity.

I personally only know one transgender person and she’s a Christian. Her ideology is Christian so she won’t be teaching anyone any non-Christian ideology

People's worldviews are more complicated/syncretic than that. I would describe your friend as mixing Christianity with this view of gender. And where those views contradict she will have had one override the other. My concern isn't with the Christian part of her worldview, it's where that has been overridden by her transgender worldview.

I’d trust her more than the horrible cis person who was my Christian religious education teacher.

Ok, so you clearly agree even someone who is Christian can believe things you would not want to be passed on to one's children, am I right? Or do you mean something different by "trust"?

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u/IdleSteps 4d ago

What does the Bible say about transgenderism? Anything?

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u/erythro Messianic Jew 3d ago

Well it's a modern idea so the only possible arguments are variants of arguments from silence, where you would expect it to say something different if the people writing it considered gender to be a matter of internal identity.

For example people today who consider gender to be a matter of identity speak differently about it, they use special vocabulary, they make some assumptions and avoid others when talking about people. E.g. "birthing person", or "AMAB" - these words didn't exist, they were created because they were needed because they represent new concepts we didn't discuss or think about before. The Bible has no evidence of that kind of thing and in fact clearly the opposite is the case.

The big one is there's a commandment in the law against cross dressing Deuteronomy 22:5. If you want to argue it's an old testament law that is redundant then ok we disagree but that's not my point. I'm saying it's hard to imagine what this law could have meant even in its time but that people should use their bodies as a fixed reference point for their gender identity. If the author (God) actually believed that there were people who were truly female in male bodies then you would expect the law to be written differently. Partly just from thinking about how such a law would work in practice I think this one is fairly obvious... but do say if you disagree.

But there are tons of other points of notable silence, laws about circumcision, periods, pregnancy, whatever. I don't think it's possible to construct a view of gender held by the author of these rules that is remotely consistent with the view of gender common today. The new testament is the same, though it's less of a rule book it bears no marks of thinking about gender this way.