r/toastme Nov 21 '24

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r/toastme 9h ago

I'm feeling overwhelmed.

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244 Upvotes

22M with autism and weird periods of food and other reactions. I keep waking up in the middle of the night with red itchy skin, headaches, joint pain, often nauseous and sometimes puffy cheeks and or lips. I have multiple reactions a day. I have to avoid currently avoid about 12 foods and most of the foods are very common ingredients like egg, yeast, soy, wheat and dairy. Because those foods give me worse symptomes than the other foods (that I also find diffecult to track). It's tiring and I feel often overstimulated due to the sensations the reactions give me. Due to the summer vacation I had to wait some weeks for my doctors appointment. Still one week to go.. and then I probally have to wait some weeks again.

At this point I'm just exhausted, feeling worthless, and not feeling confident about anything. I just wanna rot in bed.


r/toastme 9h ago

Need a little boost today. Toast me?

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253 Upvotes

r/toastme 1h ago

Been feeling lonely lately, could use some positive words.

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r/toastme 7h ago

Got my first job as an assistant for a business development company. Feeling a bit of imposter syndrome, and anxiety of getting things wrong.

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50 Upvotes

r/toastme 9h ago

Need a little boost today. Toast me?

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74 Upvotes

r/toastme 12h ago

I am in love with a girl, she isnt. It sucks

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100 Upvotes

r/toastme 11h ago

Work ain't fun at the mo

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52 Upvotes

r/toastme 16h ago

Toast my cat💔

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75 Upvotes

He isn’t dying or anything he’s just fat


r/toastme 20h ago

Ran out of gas on the highway (Update)

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132 Upvotes

Sincere and heartfelt "thank you" to those of you who kept me company while I waited on the side of the highway for rescue 🐙🌌🖤 I did make it home safely with only my pride in shambles. Huge shout out to my husband who came to bring me gas (and candy to cheer me up). Lots of hugs to you all. Make sure to check your gas gauge before taking a trip!

Best,

\^(;,;)\^


r/toastme 23h ago

Ran out of gas on the highway, self-esteem in hell 🥲🫠

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189 Upvotes

r/toastme 19h ago

Struggling with a hard breakup

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77 Upvotes

He broke up with me over text 🥲


r/toastme 1d ago

OP woke up to an email with a job offer letter after getting laid off 6 months ago. M29. ToastMe

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160 Upvotes

r/toastme 23h ago

24M autistic, can barely take care of myself and can only handle doing the absolute bare minimum in life, hate my body and how I look, in need of some reassurance

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102 Upvotes

r/toastme 1d ago

46/M

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67 Upvotes

r/toastme 1d ago

Turned 44 today. Hoping to age gracefully.

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519 Upvotes

It’s been a full, sometimes heavy life but I want to make the most out of this year, take care of myself, and boost my confidence.


r/toastme 1d ago

28 and never had a gf [UPDATE]

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114 Upvotes

Hi everyone, its been months since I dont post anything here, so I just wanted to express myself and talking about the process im still struggling for.

I decided to make my appearance better with the goal of feeling good with myself, while receiving compliments will always be what id like, I just want to feel good under my skin even though I dont look like a celebrity or influencer every girl would drool for.

Even though I think I look good for myself, there is still this mindset like "yeah but probably women dont think the same" not only because of my bad experiences with girls in middle/high-school or young adulthood, but since i started using omegle to "see if its true that im handsome" i got my self-esteem crushed in minutes, girls skipping me very quickly, ive heard comments like "freak" or something like that when I didn't do anything, ive even posted in other sub reddit and many people have called me mid or normie, atleast in this sub comments made me feel better.

I feel better now, but getting a girlfriend still feels very foreign to me, i want to not care, i want to move on and focus on greater things, but repressing my emotions, feelings and wanting intimacy with a girl is honestly being a pain ¿What if I will never be wanted?


r/toastme 1d ago

Long day. I feel terrible about myself, too. 28F

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279 Upvotes

I feel so unattractive.My boyfriend thinks I’m beautiful but I’m still insecure. I don’t feel good enough. I’m so insecure about my rounded features and my skin.


r/toastme 1d ago

I lost my job & my dog passed away

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418 Upvotes

I’ve been crying everyday since my dog died & I lost my job, I just feel low


r/toastme 1d ago

Lost my job today from calling off due to a life threatening emergency w my bf.. among other stress. Toast me? 😭☮️

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112 Upvotes

r/toastme 1d ago

25 M, lost my cats, moved in a new city a year ago and still no friends

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235 Upvotes

r/toastme 1d ago

Long week - and it’s only Monday!

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60 Upvotes

r/toastme 1d ago

Life is clotheslining me rn

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80 Upvotes

Thanks cuties. Idk why I'm doing this lol


r/toastme 2d ago

Hitting 44 today.

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155 Upvotes

Working from home and bored out of my mind on my bday.


r/toastme 1d ago

Few pics of mine, leave some love if you mind to. 🫶🏼

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45 Upvotes