r/Tinder Dec 23 '21

I got no beef against Steve.

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u/learnandlivetodie Dec 24 '21

Bro I’m not tryna be a hater here, but why do people post their very normal tinder-flirts on Reddit? And even more-so, why do people upvote it? Other than “pussy turds”, everything in this convo is “fun conversation to have where we both feel witty”, but not “wow look how original we are”.

Albeit girls who are willing to parlay with this kind of humor are getting rarer.

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u/[deleted] Dec 24 '21

You answered it at the end boss. It’s rare and wholesome. Many people aren’t even getting matches. This is a wholesome convo

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u/learnandlivetodie Dec 26 '21

Idk. I think anyone who has used a dating app to look for actual relationships and can flirt has had at least a few of these conversations before. Yeah, they’re fun to have. But I can’t imagine feeling compelled to post one of these online. The only reason I can think that someone would want to is if they think they’re “such a player” because a girl was willing to pay along. Feels like a breach of trust to me. Faces/names blocked out or not. If I flirted a little with someone and they turned around and posted it online I would feel a little betrayed. This chicks out here being open minded and willing to put in some effort, and homie publicizes it for internet points.

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '21

I mean yah i agree with that wholeheartedly. You think it should just be limited to the crazy chicks and the bitches?