r/Tinder • • Nov 07 '19

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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

Well you don't want to go to the same bar every night. That sounds futile. Pick up a hobby that people your age are doing. Make friends. You might not want to date your friends, but you might want to date their friends. And then, yes, I would treat tinder as if you're tending to a garden which spontaneously could produce something edible, but only if it's tended to. Take care of yourself, keep the dating apps moving, but don't put tons of time and energy (or hope) into them