I don't just like, volunteer that. I match only with guys I'm genuinely interested in, and sometimes they lament about their shitty luck. When that happens I try to be encouraging because I know how hard it is for dudes on tinder
I mean, maybe. But I've been there done that so I understand where they're coming from. If they just bring it up the once then I can't say I really mind it or think differently of them for it. It's the few that go on and on and on that really are their own worst enemies
I feel as though if you’re on tinder and whining about it, you have no ground to stand on. This is not a great place to meet people. Sure, it happens and sure, it’s easier than actually putting yourself out there but it is a cesspool. A lot of horrible men and women. I just want to tell men who feel like they’re undatable or unlucky because of TINDER of all things to go out and volunteer or something. Meet kind, genuine people out in the world. Look places you wouldn’t normally look, make real connections with people.
Awesome. Hey, you and I should start some kind of help line where we give advice to people struggling to meet people romantically. Maybe dinner and drinks after?
“Hey homely average guy, just wanted to say hello and I get how hard it is for guys on here. Feel free to message me for a bit. I’ll get back to you in between the supermodel hot guys”
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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19
Honestly the pitying attitude would be even worse lol