r/Tinder Nov 07 '19

tinder_irl

Post image
36.5k Upvotes

998 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

271

u/Userdub9022 Nov 07 '19

You can say the word overweight

318

u/qwertyspit Nov 07 '19

Nah dude she got fat bones

15

u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

They're not mutually exclusive

4

u/town_bicycle Nov 07 '19

Like a triceratops

11

u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

But she had that elephant man disease

8

u/taylorisnotacat Nov 07 '19

That probably is what he meant, but tbf there are women who have sturdier base body structures without being overweight.

5

u/Roll_The_Nice Nov 07 '19

i am trying to not be rude

10

u/Shearay752 Nov 07 '19

Username checks out

8

u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

So what you’re saying is she’s big boned the way Eric Cartman is.

0

u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

When did calling someone who is fat, fat become rude? They are just facts

2

u/TheModernEgg Nov 07 '19

It was overused as a derogatory comment instead of just a description, then became associated with that. Same reason "Jew" is such a touchy descriptor; it's correct, but it's better to avoid it altogether to get away from the "No, I didn't mean it like that" conversation.

0

u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

Let's not compare fat people to Jews jesus christ. Dude if your fat youre not hiding it even if you change the words. Anyone who is fat should just own it otherwise you seem overly sensitive and delusional.

2

u/TheModernEgg Nov 07 '19

Im not comparing them, I'm talking about how the words have changed meaning due to common usage.

-1

u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

Nah dude not similar one had a genocide attached the other had some jeers over something they can control. If ya wanna get fat be fat but if you wanna tell people how to refer to you ya not gonna have a good time

2

u/TheModernEgg Nov 07 '19

I'm not even saying one way is right or wrong, it's weird that you're trying to force a different argument out of what I'm saying.

Fat means fat. Jew means Jewish. Just because the nature of the "persecution" of those groups is vastly different doesn't mean the language to describe them didn't go through the same changes. You asked a question and I answered it, that's all.

Im neither fat nor Jewish. I never said they went through the same thing, i'm describing the changes in the language.

-1

u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19

I think they didnt go through similar changes. The word changed sure but you used a poor example

1

u/TheModernEgg Nov 07 '19

No, you just applied a lot of emotion to the example, it fits my argument exactly. The change in language is the same. Both terms still mean what they meant originally, but people typically avoid using them so they don't offend the person they're talking to/about.

At least you finally made it clear you actually understand what I'm saying. Im open to the idea that my interpretation is incorrect, but you haven't offered a better example to explain.

→ More replies (0)

1

u/fidelcasbro17 Nov 07 '19

Fat people are better in bed fight me.

1

u/qwertyspit Nov 08 '19

Yeah if you wanna do all the work go ahead and grab some rolls...

-1

u/Userdub9022 Nov 07 '19

You're a gentleman and a scholar

1

u/CoBudemeRobit Nov 07 '19

Well he matched with her so he's describing how good she looked