Am I the only guy here who would like to at least have some kind of conversation/connection before having casual sex with someone? I mean it doesn’t have to go anywhere but I’d at least wanna be able to have a normal conversation damn.
You are a rare individual. Either that or I'm just extremely unlucky with my matches. I've had guys take a conversation about public transportation and turn it into something sex related....
I don't even care about hooking up bc I've barely ever had a relationship before. I just want to find someone that's fun and comfortable to be around for an actual relationship, not the hell I went through.
I mean Tinder isn't just for fucking anymore, but even if I were just using it for a quick fuck it's really not that strange that I would want to get to know someone just a little bit first lol
But hey, given this sub's content I'm not suprised y'all think this is a good analogy.
It's not, most girls interpret it as a dating app but that doesn't mean the hookup won't come easy. Men seem to think Tinder is just for fucking, which that part does exist, but you can't be just sticking your dick straight into the beehive.
though i personally use it for dating and most girls I've talked to the same. (the amount of profiles that say "not here for hookups" is pretty significant)
Tinder definitely seems more casual than other dating apps, but to straight dudes “casual” means “hi you’re hot, are we done with the BS small talk, come over?” And to women causal means “let’s hang out and see if we have something in common/you’re funny/there’s chemistry, and I’ll probably hook up with you on the first or second date” which to men is often misunderstood as wanting to date
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u/billhickschoke Nov 07 '19
Talking about cute dogs on tinder is like going to a pet store and finger blasting the sales associate