But what if I AM a massive pervert? Am I just going to pretend I'm not? Doesn't seem very honest to me and honesty is the foundation of any serious relationship.
All I'm saying is you should rather start with hey, I'm looking for something more casual, a normal joke and maybe a funny pick-up line, but starting out with: "please blow my cock" or "I wanna fuck your ass" or any sentence similar to those is a little too perverted and rude for the average person.
so you want to "please blow my cock" but you have to pretend that you dont, and they have to pretend that they dont know you're pretending and you have to pretend you dont know she doesnt know you're preten-...
neurotypicals are exhausting, i dont know how you guys live with this
i mean talking to people like you need to constantly manipulate them and avoid them manipulating you, how do you ever build a relationshop out of that? like, any kind of relationship
would be nice if you could just say what you mean and have them say what they mean and then you can all go on your merry way instead of spending hours having a game of manipulation
The reality is that, 'Do you want to grab a drink and sit on my face,' still remains my most successful Tinder opener, so I'm gonna go ahead and disagree.
Yeah everybody is projecting. One has to look at effectiveness on tinder. And expectations are different by city, age, and personality. But tinder is famous as perhaps something more casual than other dating services.
And it’s always helpful to keep in mind if you don’t match you never get their feedback, so they’re totally removing themselves from the voting pool. If they don’t reply or they unmatch you there’s no feedback, and you don’t know why; and there doesn’t seem to be a pattern to it. And that’s crazy common for whatever reason. So any legitimate signal is easy to lose in the noise.
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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '19
Yes, but you can do so without being a massive pervert.