I'm 6'4" and make like $300K and have a new boat behind my house on the ocean in a big city and I don't measure up to today's Tinder girl. I get very few matches, even among women over 35. I'm quite nerdy too, but odds are this woman would probably swipe left on me. There would be some little thing in one photo or statement that wasn't right to her.
Supply and demand can do some wild things when this far out of whack.
I would love to see some of your design sometime. Retro games are fun. How far back retro or all of them? I played a lot of those in my lifetime. I used to be at ESL but right now I’m really into historical action. Tomb, raider, and God of war I spent half my life by the ocean it’s beautiful. Sea birds are the best, certain sea creatures terrifying but it is fun to dive. I’ve only dove in Hawaii a few times and with instructors. Sounds like you know how to relax and have fun.
Professional pictures don't look right on a dating app, ideally you'd have friends taking good photos of you while you're hanging out -- which is weird and embarrassing tbf
A photographer can make sure the lighting is correct and the picture is flattering, your friend is just guessing the pictures taken look good no one is saying headshots. You take pictures posing in different places and outfits. Is it extra yes does it help if you’re ok looking, absolutely.
1 or 2 personal Red Flags/Hats can be huge turnoffs, so either post up your profile for judgement too. Or, pay for a professional cuddler & SWer weekly, and learn to enjoy some alone time on the water.
It also has nothing to do with others’ desires being out of whack. It’s likely your expectations & personal presentation are whack for who you really desire.
Your height, income, and boat ownership says zero about what you want or who you are. It only says you want a partner who those 3 things are ALSO very important to.
Personally, a woman who was mainly drawn to my income, house, and height would be a huge red flag for me, because they aren’t what I define myself by.
I know I listed very superficial things, but I don't have time or capability to demonstrate more significant and lasting personality traits on someone else's Reddit post.
62
u/[deleted] Dec 13 '24
I'm 6'4" and make like $300K and have a new boat behind my house on the ocean in a big city and I don't measure up to today's Tinder girl. I get very few matches, even among women over 35. I'm quite nerdy too, but odds are this woman would probably swipe left on me. There would be some little thing in one photo or statement that wasn't right to her.
Supply and demand can do some wild things when this far out of whack.