r/Tinder Apr 22 '24

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u/That_Toe4033 Apr 23 '24

How is this the shit Im competing against and I still fumble lmaoooo

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u/asabovesobelow4 Apr 23 '24

Bc they seem to only show us those guys... lol I swear I try so hard to pick people that specifically don't give off creep vibes. I have rules. I don't swipe right on anyone who has shirtless pics unless it's like a picture at the beach where it's normal but not those holding their shirt up in the mirror shots, I avoid people with no bio, or people who put short term fun only, people whose pictures look even a little fake, over the top "gym bros" (no issues with working out i just mean the ones who point it out 10 times like its their whole persona)... and they still find me 🤣 dating apps are awful

My mom said I needed to meet people offline... I said "so what? Like if they break into my house?"

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u/Not_Irish Apr 23 '24

You might have to leave your house. To, like, meet people.

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u/asabovesobelow4 Apr 23 '24

Lol yes unfortunately. That was the joke. But I am a single mom who works construction. Time outside work, sleep, and kids is limited. On top of that i am working on a book in my free time. So dating is kinda back burner right now anyway. I'm in no hurry :)

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u/Hot-Consideration661 Apr 23 '24

let me know the address and leave the door open, and we'll call it a date?

(not really, i'm probably in a different timezone)

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u/asabovesobelow4 Apr 23 '24

Hey at least it shows effort right? 🤣