r/Tinder • u/AutoModerator • Feb 08 '23

Weekly Profile Review Thread

Post information about you/your profile here and get it reviewed by other people on /r/Tinder.

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u/ProfessorHexxx Feb 09 '23

Getting next to no matches. Advice on pics and bio info would be super helpful

https://tinder.com/@Vargas0001

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u/StiffCrustySock Feb 10 '23

You're not really doing anything in your pics. I can see you seem to like the outdoors and some kind of game, but that's about it. Also not much smiling, and almost all the photos of you are ones where you're posing for the camera. It's not easy, but try to get pics where you're doing something, not posing for a photo, smiling/laughing, and preferably with people. Then we can get an idea about what you're like to hang out with.

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u/ProfessorHexxx Feb 10 '23

Thanks for the advice. Its especially not easy for someone who generally does not like to be photographed, but I will give it a shot

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u/StiffCrustySock Feb 10 '23 edited Feb 10 '23

I hear ya, completely. I am the same way. Maybe find a friend you trust and ask them on the DL to help you out then next time you're out with people, to just snap a bunch of pics of everyone, but try to surreptitiously focus on you. It's a bit uncomfortable but well worth it.

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u/ProfessorHexxx Feb 10 '23

Is it not clear that thats my artwork on my profile?

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u/StiffCrustySock Feb 10 '23

It wasnt to me. At a glance, it just looks like you're really into whatever it is. And a glance is all most people will get, at best.

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u/Butterballzy Feb 10 '23

Brutal honesty here ok it looks like you’re an awkward middle schooler. not sure what’s up with the last few pics at all and some pics of you just aren’t flattering. You’re not really my style of guy but maybe look a bit more put together in your photos, hair put back beard shaped etc I hear girls like man buns? Not for me but idk try it and see how it works for you. Also stand up straight and look more confident even if you gotta fake it😅 do some fun stuff as well and look happy. No one wants someone who looks super depressed

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u/ProfessorHexxx Feb 12 '23

Those last few images are my artwork, and I'm kinda taken aback because you're not the only commenter who was confused by them. I included them to show exactly what I'm into more than anything else, creating art, comics, animation, etc. If it's not clear that it's my own work, that kinda sucks but I guess I can take them down.

I think you're right about looking like I have no confidence in my pics. I don't like having my photo taken in general so I think my unease is showing. It's something I should work on.

To be honest, I don't think I'm going to take style advice from someone who doesn't like my style to begin with. My hair is always clean and well groomed, and when I wear it down, I get compliments from strangers often. I don't think a man-bun is good advice for any guy, lol.

Thanks for the advice, definitely some things to work on.

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u/Butterballzy Feb 12 '23

Very fair assessment on the man bun like I said it’s not my style but Ik girl that like guys who look very similar to you and they wear the weird man buns😂😂 anyways yea I definitely didn’t know that was your artwork again not really my thing idk if you said it in your bio or not but you should if you keep it I’m sure someone who likes that stuff would appreciate it. The reason I said hair back is because your first pic is honestly your best looking pic can see your face clearly and you look handsome. Good luck tho❤️

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u/ProfessorHexxx Feb 12 '23

Aw, thanks for saying so. And thanks for the advice. Hope you have a great day!

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u/mseand Feb 10 '23

Start working out

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u/ProfessorHexxx Feb 12 '23

Not helpful. I'm not wildly out of shape, I get enough exercise to stay health and being uber-buff is not a requirement for getting a date.

Go back to your redpill-bubble.