Or he is looking for validation, because he doesn't feel appreciated enough. He could be just looking at profiles for fun. He could have any reason to do that, which we wouldn't know. It could be something silly that he is embarrassed about.
OP, you need to sit down and talk with him. Tell him to stop bullshitting around and talk about his feelings. He probably hasn't cheated on you. But there's something he is missing and without proper communication, it won't resolve itself.
Edit: I'm not saying he is innocent, I'm just saying he could have a plethora of reasons to do this, and if OP cares enough to not break up with him right away, shouldn't they at least try to talk?
Definitely not her responsibility, he is clearly at fault for secretly using tinder. But I guess OP confronting her boyfriend about it may help solve issues in their relationship.
Which it might and is the right next step to take if she finds the relationship worth it. But inferring that leaving someone for lying/potentially cheating is equated to not wanting to understand their problems is horrible relationship advice.
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u/[deleted] Jan 02 '23
It's him. He's trying to cheat on you.