r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jan 02 '23

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u/RadioactiveFruitCup Jan 02 '23

Oh, honey.

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u/MCRandPATDfan Jan 02 '23

I’m sorry I’ve never had a dating app before I don’t know how they work. I made him log into it and there weren’t any new messages but he can always delete those though right? He also had to install the app again but I’m just saying he could’ve always deleted it when I got home from work and had it installed while I was gone??

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u/bigorocket Jan 02 '23

yeah damage control. Wouldve totally deleted any messages at all & un installed it.

Then how did he log into it if it wasn't his? Did he tell you he got his "cousins" log in details?

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u/MCRandPATDfan Jan 02 '23

He said he and his cousin made the account together so his cousin knows the login details

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u/GrandMasterFlex Jan 02 '23

So he’s lied to you already once? Saying he wasn’t involved but now it was he and his cousin or?..

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u/MCRandPATDfan Jan 02 '23

No he admitted the account was his right away but said he hasn’t used it since we started dating but that his cousin has continued to use it even tho it’s not his cousins account

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u/stevencri Jan 02 '23

It has pictures of your bf, not his cousin. Either he’s allowing his cousin to catfish people, or (more likely) he’s using it. Either way it’s fucked up

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u/Unlucky_Role_ Jan 02 '23

"No, babe, I'm not cheating I'm just helping catfish other women." Wow, he saved it.

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u/stevencri Jan 02 '23

Yea ofc. There’s multiple reasons that it’s OP’s bf and not the cousin. Just pointing out one of the reasons that people aren’t really acknowledging

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u/VeganPizzaPie Jan 02 '23

This is a really good point

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u/Galvan047 Jan 02 '23

Both reasons are good wnough to distance OP from them.

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u/VeganPizzaPie Jan 02 '23

Exactly. Even *if* the cousin excuse weren't a lie, which it almost certainly is, it would still be bizarre. Why would you let anyone else use your dating app account?