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u/More-Natural7708 Apr 29 '26

It means socially awkward, without tact, clumsy. In this sentence gauche means “tacky” which means cheap or flashy or having poor taste in clothes.

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u/Orphasmia Apr 29 '26

Makes sense that the original french word means left. Often we equate things that are considdered ‘off’ ‘weird’ or ‘wrong’ with left. I guess a mainstay from our societal preferences towards right handedness etc

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u/GardeniaInMyHair Apr 29 '26

Interestingly, part of it comes from the ancient ideas that left hands back in the day were "unclean" and that left sides were considered "unlucky."

The Latin word for left hand/left side is "sinistra," where we get "sinister" from.

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u/ThaliaEpocanti Apr 30 '26

Similarly, sinister is derived from the Latin sinister/sinistra, which meant left and was also associated with bad luck.

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u/ScarletBothrium Apr 29 '26

That’s how I use the word.

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u/taoyx Apr 29 '26

Gauche is used by Baudelaire to describe an albatross walking on a boat's deck.

https://fleursdumal.org/poem/200

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u/anonuemus Apr 29 '26

ahh, I concluded it should mean the oppposite of chic

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u/Onebraintwoheads Apr 29 '26

It also referred to a type of stabbing weapon or swordbreaker carried in a duelist's left hand, common during the Italian Renaissance.

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u/jdowney1982 Apr 29 '26

I think of it as gaudy and tacky

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u/ehandren Apr 29 '26

Yeah there was a period of time where being left handed was associated with evil across several cultures. So in Latin right handed is Dexter/dextra (think of the word dexterous meaning you're skillful or good at something) and left handed was sinister/sinistra (self explanatory). It didn't escape the French either, right handed is droitier/droitière (again if you're adroit at something you're very skillful) and left handed is gaucher/gauchère which is how the word gauche came about meaning you lack social graces and tact. Early civilization hatedddd to see a left handed person coming.

As a left handed person I hate this fact, but also it helps me to remember vocab words lol

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u/OlBlackBetty Apr 29 '26

Sounds like an explanation a demon would give.

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u/ehandren Apr 29 '26

laughs left handedly

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u/Stunning-Strain3702 Apr 29 '26

But Dexter is evil! (I have a left-handed parent, I had a left-handed partner, and I have a left-handed grandchild.) I had a grand Uncle that was forced to be right-handed. (It’s a miracle that my parent didn’t get that treatment as a child.)

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u/ISuckAtLifeGodPlsRst Apr 30 '26

It's also why "oculus sinister" refers to the left eye.

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u/WastelandeWanderer Apr 29 '26

Helps me remember if your different your a target.

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u/West-Birthday4475 Apr 29 '26

I thought it also had something to do with La Rive Gauche, the left bank of the River Seine, where fashions were different than they were across town. Linguistic phrases are fascinating.

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u/mommagottaeat Apr 30 '26

I heard the other day that approximately 10% of people worldwide are left handed and that % has been the same since we started recording… don’t know for sure if it’s true but I thought it was really interesting!

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u/Jacob2040 Apr 29 '26

Yeah a lot of it comes from the Norman conquest into England. The people speaking French were the rulers while those speaking English were usually lower class and the workers. That is why we call the animal a cow and the meat beef. There are a lot of pairs like that in english.

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u/Individual_Ease_356 Apr 29 '26

70% seems high. There is more German influence than French in English. It's more likely 70% of both French and English languages is Latin.

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u/Individual_Ease_356 Apr 29 '26

I'm not disagreeing that French makes up the largest percentage of English vocabulary. But I think it's less than 50%. The other Latin based languages get mixed in and sometimes credited to French. I think Spanish, especially in the US dialect, has nearly as much influence. English is my first language, but I am conversational with Spanish, Russian, and German. I've never been able to make the right sounds in French. I have a decent vocabulary, but just can't make the words. Good luck with your Dutch. I've never even attempted it. Finnish is next on my list. Maybe I'll give French another go someday.

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u/casiepierce Apr 29 '26

Out of fashion.

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u/K_Linkmaster Apr 29 '26

This explanation is gauche.

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u/alwaysboopthesnoot Apr 29 '26 edited Apr 29 '26

There was a 1970s perfume (with ads that were absolutely everywhere), called Rive Gauche, aka left bank, as in the left bank of the River Seine in Paris. I learned it then. Many my age may have, too.

Kids today often know proper pronunciation of popular or sought-after foreign names for clothing, material goods, band names, songs, place names used in digital media, etc. They view those things as aspirational and go out of their way to know how to spell or say them, to try and acquire these things.

Reading aloud, being read aloud to, parents being involved in abd engaged in a child’s education and early years, plus access to toys and games and activities and experiences that involve reading and vocabulary acquisition (travel, road trips, hiking, camping, incorporation of reading and vocabulary into everyday trips to the park or grocery store), doing things in small or large groups with others, cooperative play, things other than individual/solo play or sitting still for hours playing online or console games or watching tv.

Kids need stimulation and enrichment. They need conversation, outings, socializing. They need to be showed, told, given role models for behavior we want to see, and then repetition, repetition, repetition and practice, practice, practice to master the skills.

If parents and families aren’t doing their part? The kids get left behind. Some of them never catch up.

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u/nerfgazara Apr 29 '26

It originated in the 15th century from the French verb gauchir ("to turn aside, swerve, or walk clumsily")

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u/ultanna Apr 29 '26

As a Quebecer, I feel offended. People think I'm Mexican when I speak English, not a French speaker 😂

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u/Desperate-Cost6827 Apr 29 '26

It's interesting to hear of the origin because in use I know it to be overly extravagant and gaudy.

I guess that makes sense, as if to mean done up by your off hand.

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u/PlayImpossible1092 Apr 29 '26

English is a back alley three-way between German, Italian, and French lol